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  • Ages 22-44
  • Located anywhere
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Last online
Yesterday – 9:32pm
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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For those of us who dare to be different...

Profound, yet subtle minded; I am the yin and yang between fun and seriousness, and to be frank, I'm seriously facetious!

I transplanted myself with only two bags of luggage to Silicon Valley from Youngstown, Ohio because for me I love the extensive culture, a FRESH variety of ethnic food, people of all different backgrounds and dispositions, and the aesthetic beauty found in nature that surround us... plus my awesome brother lives here, so like a good philosopher - what the hell.. Why not!?!

...Dislikes so far you ask??? Traffic!!!

I work in the radiology department of a very amazing health care facility, which honestly, one year ago I never thought I'd work in the health care industry. I basically get to be a social butterfly between 90 plus patients a day, mri techs, radiologists, and administration.. essentially, day to day I'm finding myself charming the heck out of done sticky situations!

Speaking of existence and the meaning of being; I studied philosophy in college and absolutely would not trade that part of my life for well.... almost anything! I also in fact swapped majors from architecture - literally from the draw of a hat; i.e. chance is a good thing! In a nutshell there were several years I lived as an athlete - I shifted gears in college to that of an artist; an existentially androgynous singer songwriter guitarist who composed almost 4 albums worth of funk rock & blues. Over time I have also transformed from an Orthodox to a Roman Catholic, to an agnostic, to a Zen Buddhist, to a nihilist, and finally to a stout agnostic and atheist. Not sure if I'd end up married to a religious person, but I'm certainly open enough to find out (contingent to physical and cognitive attraction, of course!)

As far as who I am: I'm a rather soft individual on the inside, although I am dynamic in most ways; I believe that strength really is an ability to sustain through the senses, like while exercising, right? I'm a pretty fun, witty, and charming guy when I feel my best. I love to be outdoors and amidst nature. I adore free thinking and those of the like. I am quite sensuous and can pop from a pretty firm gentleman, to that of a very soft and sensitive individual. I must give fair warning; I'm an existential madman, have lived many different ways, and my spirit can change as profoundly as it does suddenly. If that sort of talk turns you on then well.....

My "turn-ons" in a mature girl to a blossomed dame - to even yes, a slightly older woman (40-somehting is my max), are a sense of knowing who you are, an un-egotistical application of your defined or even refined style, which does NOT take priority in your life. An individual, free thinking, one of a kind person who isn't afraid of their dreams and is actively pursuing them. I find it interesting that women seem to be attracted to a man who is busy doing, or becoming something, whereas men go more for the figure who 'is' something. Well I'd like both in a dame; a well defined lady, who is striving for something better, but yet, present in the moment. I don't feel that is too much to ask.... from a 'human being.'

Please note that I am extremely open minded, and don't want to scare you off by saying what it is that I like; I don't like the mistake of judging someone that I couldn't possibly ever know.... So please don't let my opinions give you a good or bad impression.

Thank you very much for spending the time to read about me, myself, and moi, and hope to hear from you soon!
What I’m doing with my life
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Making a record this summer!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Concepts & word association, philosophizing & communication, playing guitar/writing music, taking care of myself, exercising & meditating.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My intensity. Sometimes scares people off, sometimes turns people on, but that all depends on YOU!

My height - I'm a "tall boy," but I'm not a ghetto drink :{P

I have deep eyes, high cheekbones, adorable (yes I said adorable) dimples, OH and the utter stare of a genius haha... :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:Being and Time, The Critique of Pure Reason, ~~~~Judgment, God is NOT Great, Wrinkle in Time, Fear and Loathing, Delivering Happiness, etc.

Films: Hitchcock: Rope, Strangers on a Train, Vertigo, Fight Club, Fear and Loathing, Pulp Fiction, Life Aquatic, etc.

Music: RHCP, RADIOHEAD, Pink Floyd, etc.

Food: Thai, Mexican, Chinese, Pizza, Gourmet organic delicatessen, craft micro-beers, fine wine.. Bulleit Burbon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
oxygen and mediation, imagination, ideas, guitar pedals, inspiration, coffee, nature, kitties and whiskers, love and companionship, a hot date..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
philosophy, religion, love, what's right/wrong with the world, music, spiritual greatness, death.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Open for ideas!

Not a typical lets go out clubbin' type fool, so if you try to pack your heat and must go out, then we probably aren't on the same wavelength.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I taught I saw a puddy cat.
You should message me if
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YOU want more of moi.