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parqbench

26 Chicago, IL Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 13
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Islam, and very serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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queer bilingual (spain-ish/english) gender-variant thing.

i put "bi" even though i really dislike the term for myself personally. basically what it means is that i find myself with all kinds of different bodies that do not always fall into what i am frequently read as--a faggot. sometimes i like that and sometimes i wanna be a lady.

in homolandia, i would tell you i'm "verse". it all depends on you.

if i message you, i ain't playing!

nowadays all i think about is destruction.
What I’m doing with my life
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i work and i freelance. trying to write and always failing, formerly causing mayhem and being apocalyptic, now just being apocalyptic.

i work with youth in my "regular job" in a sensitive place. it's really important to me. ask me about it--i'll tell you.

i moved to chicago from the east coast a little while ago to "get serious". multiple emotional breakdowns later i can't tell if i'm doing it but sometimes all the pressure feels good in a way (lol kink). sometimes there's not enough time in the day. that's where you fit in, though. make that time, or make me make that time for you sugar.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
spieling, doing impersonations, listening, never finishing anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
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two things with lasting relevance:

my long eyelashes and my birth mark.

i used to get made fun of for looking like a girl because of the former; now i like to think that i'm a dyke, so i love not having to use mascara.

the latter, i recently found out, was what my first (kinda sorta but you know) manboy lover found attractive about me. meaningful on so many levels.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i'll just say that i read a lot. it's one of the only things that makes me feel otherworldly ecstasy. it used to be drugs but now i found something better...really.

when i move the biggest thing i have to carry is 32 milk crates of books. right now i'm going between andre breton's "arcanum 17" and "agricola & germania" by tacitus. i just finished a james baldwin novel, "another country". he is one of my faves.

i am also a not-very-secret nerd about games, movies, etc. encyclopedic knowledge of final fantasy, here.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. lemon
2. lemon
3. lemon
4. lemon
5. lemon
6. cock
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
politics
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
bumpin and grinding...or holed up in my room reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i have a deep and abiding fascination with nipples of all kinds.
You should message me if
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you would like to go for a ride with a snazzy sex queen. or want to get know someone who will take you seriously and listen to you and try to make you laugh like a seal.

also, please no racists, femmephobic/misogynist, colonialist fucks, i will virtually baleet you in a heartbeat.

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