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eldestinodelmar

31 Brooklyn, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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this is pretty much me in a nut shell:

"Small talk makes me feel the way I do when a mosquito is buzzing around my head. Irritated. and then finally unable to get any relief I just slaughter the damn thing. I slaughter the moment by saying something real."
- bell hooks
What I’m doing with my life
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the last few years i've been doing activisty things with occupy (i.e., www.rollingjubilee.org) and educational experiments, and i just spent the last spring leading a group of 18 year old americans through rural communities in central america, teaching them about politics and the world and life and all that... now i'm taking it one day at a time...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
pulling things apart, re-building, thinking and wandering, listening when the time is right and talking when the time is right, strategic silence
The first things people usually notice about me
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lately, my calmness. also my hair!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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last handful of books i have read:
the hummingbird's daughter; gathering moss: a cultural and social history of moss; no destination: an earth pilgrim; escaping education: living and learning at the grassroots; we make the road by walking: education and social change

movies: i just love love love "in the mood for love". and i just saw alejandro jodorowsky's new movie "la danza de la realidad" and wow!

music: lately, nina simone, tinariwen & lila downs
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
other people, intimacy, deeeeeep breaths, dialogue, tenderness, and i'll leave the sixth one blank (because i could never do without the unknown)...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
friendship, love, sex, community, the galaxy, social and political change, the nature of the psyche, etc, etc, etc,
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
breaking all the rules yo!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i'm half coyote
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do it do it!