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eldestinodelmar

31 Brooklyn, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 31
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Status
Single
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"I am deliberate and afraid of nothing."

Oh wait, that's Audre Lorde, not me :)

But I AM one of those people that is just DELIGHTED by the validation of the whole “highly sensitive person” and introvert revolution that’s happening…

& I’m not afraid of the dark…

"Small talk makes me feel the way I do when a mosquito is buzzing around my head. Irritated. and then finally unable to get any relief I just slaughter the damn thing. I slaughter the moment by saying something real."
- that's bell hooks but also me
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to recover from a society that is constantly asking me what i am doing with my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
strategic silence
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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last handful of books i have read:
empire's workshop, a brief history of time, state capitalism and world revolution, holistic anatomy, waking the tiger

movies: i just love love love em

music: yes please
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
other people, intimacy, deeeeeep breaths, dialogue, tenderness, and i'll leave the sixth one blank (because i could never do without the unknown)...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
friendship, love, sex, community, the galaxy, healing, social and political change, the nature of the psyche, food, nature, etc, etc, etc,
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
who cares
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm half coyote
You should message me if
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do it do it!