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30 M Brooklyn, NY

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Last Online
Yesterday – 11:25am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
hi! so... i'm just getting back into the city after 6 months in mexico and central america, and then a road trip across the US, and then some time camping in the sierras. it's been quite a rush!

whatever i say here will fall so short of what i should tell you about myself. isn't that a weird feeling? i feel like even though i'm only 30 i've lived a million lives. in my own ways, i've been a philosopher, a poet, a lover, a wanderer, a mystic, a revolutionary, a psychoanalyst, a humble gardener, a teacher, a dancer, a friend, a seeker. i guess i'm all of these, and none of these, and thousands of things i don't even know about yet.

lately, this line from rumi has lifted my heart:

Be patient.
Respond to every call
that excites your spirit.
What I’m doing with my life
the last few years i've been doing all sorts of crazy shit with occupy (i.e.,, and i just spent the last spring leading a group of 18 year old americans through rural communities in central america, teaching them about politics and the world and life and all that... now i'm taking it one minute one hour one day at a time, trying to embrace possibility, stay open, see what happens...
I’m really good at
pulling things apart, re-building, thinking and wandering, listening when the time is right and talking when the time is right, strategic silence
The first things people usually notice about me
lately, my calmness. also my hair!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
last handful of books i have read:
the hummingbird's daughter; gathering moss: a cultural and social history of moss; no destination: an earth pilgrim; escaping education: living and learning at the grassroots; we make the road by walking: education and social change

movies: i just love love love "in the mood for love". and i just saw alejandro jodorowsky's new movie "la danza de la realidad" and wow!

music: lately, salsa!

food: beans and eggs, seriously
The six things I could never do without
friends & community, love/sex/intimacy, deeeeeep breaths, dialogue, agreements, and i'll leave the sixth one blank (because i could never do without the unknown)...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
friendship, love, the galaxy, social and political change, the nature of the psyche, etc, etc, etc,
On a typical Friday night I am
breaking all the rules yo! (ok but seriously i just don't know how to answer this question, i havent had friday nights as a real thing in a while, but being in nyc i would probably be doing what most people do... walking around with friends or at a bar, or hearing people read poetry or watching a movie, or...)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're genuinely interested in engaging with another human being