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34 M Sunnyvale, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 15
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a strong personal commitment to the truth. I can't find a way to say that that doesn't sound trite, sorry. ^_^ I'm interested in finding out the truth about pretty much everything, which inclines me to be intellectually curious and to think scientifically. I would love to hear your truth. =)

I'm also wicked good looking. That's what my mom tells me, anyway.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved to the Bay Area about 6 months ago from Dallas, TX. I'm living with the friend who encouraged me to get out here and attending a web development bootcamp. Hopefully soon I'll be living the Silicon Valley dream and biking to my new coding job. ;)

Speaking of the bike, I just got it and god damn do I love riding that thing. If you want to show me a killer route, message now!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Explaining things. Reading people. Reaching high places. Debate/discussion. Singing. Keeping the beat. Editing. Eating dessert. Cooking. Making cappuccinos.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Height, sense of humor, glasses, overpowering intellect, aforementioned devastatingly good looks. Sarcasm.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Podcasts (WTF, OKC, no love for the spoken word?):
Dan Carlin's Hardcore History
This American Life
On the Media (Best!)
The Savage Lovecast
Planet Money
Sound Opinions
99% Invisible (Roman Mars has The Sexiest radio voice. Ever.)

Snow Crash, Anathem (Neal Stephenson)
The Gods of Gotham (Lindsay Faye)
Wicked (Gregory Maguire)
Jonathan Strange and Mr. Norrell (Susanna Clarke)
The End of Faith (Sam Harris)
The Dresden Files (Jim Butcher)
The Lies of Locke Lamora (Scott Lynch)
The Sandman (Neil Gaiman)
Watchmen (Alan Moore)

Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon
The Nolan Batman Trilogy
Anything by the Cohen Brothers, P.T. Anderson, or Wes Anderson

Rock (Foo Fighters, Them Crooked Vultures, Rise Against, Disturbed, Led Zeppelin, TMBG, Ben Folds)
Folk (Josh Ritter, Mountain Goats)
Symphonic (Late romantic/early modern)
Dixie jazz (Jim Cullum)

I don't really watch TV but I sure did love Firefly. 30 Rock is also pretty funny.

Eggs, just not Benedict
Thai (Pad Ke Mow!)
More dessert, please
Pretty much any bread product
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
-Human Contact (Hi, I'm an extrovert! What's your name?)
-The Internet
-Delicious Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Game Systems (Specifically right now, how to represent loss in a video game through a combination of mechanics and story without making the player feel punished)
-Why I can't have a 7th item on the above list
-Commas and why people use so goddamn many of them
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing Dungeons and Dragons with friends, catching a movie, or perhaps just relaxing from walking all over the fucking place.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I lived, very briefly, in Rapid City, SD. If you ask me nicely I might tell you why.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Any or all of the following apply:
-You know of an awesome food or activity that I should sample with you.
-You are a motherfuckin' ninja and want to team up for great justice.
-You have something unreasonably entertaining to say.

*Gents should note!*
I'm more "heteroflexible" than bi. That is to say, I'm open to the idea of going out with a man, but I'm more attracted to women. (Dear Ben Whishaw, if you're reading this, you're the most beautiful person on the planet, please message now kthxbye.)