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58 Honolulu, HI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–65
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 23
Native American, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Japanese (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Imagine a child, a sage, and an explorer living together in one body. That's me.

My love is studying about and teaching consciousness. That has taken the form of studying and teaching courses in conscious living, meditation, yoga, tantra, and qigong. To do this I've lived abroad quite a few years. I love to travel and explore.

I like good conversations, good food, a good wine every now and then, outdoor fun (hiking, biking, sailing, kayaking, snorkeling, etc), racquetball, working out, concerts, reading, movies, and music. I think I'll try learning SUP (stand-up paddleboard) next.

I am very different from most people I've met.
I've had some mind-blowing experiences that started when I was a child.
I don't have a smartphone (LOL). I don't have a TV, but I love movies. I don't remember the last time I was on Facebook, and I've NEVER tweeted.
When I'm outside I like to feel and smell, taste, touch and listen - not yack or listen to music.
I like to watch and listen as much I do to talk about things I love.
I'm into Radical Honesty, but I don't like to argue. I do enjoy debating ideas. I'm assertive and yet very open-minded - I might 'switch sides' if what someone is thinking makes more sense than what I thought.
I'm a mix of traditional, progressive, and liberal.
I'm very sensual and think "great sex" is about the soul-to-soul connection that can be experienced; at the same time I love exploring my lover's body and what she likes. To me, a good lover is someone who's good at loving from the inside out.

I used to be a polyamorist until I discovered that my ideas about it put me in a VERY small minority of 'poly' people. (Google polyfidelity).

I basically feel that all organized religion is a perversion of Truth - so I mostly follow Vedic teachings along with some Taoist and Buddhist wisdom. My main spiritual philosophy is called dual non-duality.
I do a practice that has resulted with me being able to be in Union with Source (or the godhead - there's all kinds of names for it). That's changed my whole life and how I live it.

I would really appreciate finding a woman who has the qualities of a true Muse. What do I mean by that? A real Muse is someone who can perceive the potential in another and enjoys actively HELPING that other reach their potential. A true Muse therefore understands the power of honesty, intuition, Love and commitment. A true Muse doesn't take off when there is a 'rainy day', though she might ask me to go get a bigger umbrella!
What I’m doing with my life
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I've been learning about communication and compassion, and exploring deeper levels of the Infinite. Getting things together to start teaching again; and at the same time checking out some business possibilities with my best friend from high school, that are pretty exciting.
Sometimes though it kinda feels like I'm waiting for my next "set of instructions"!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, Fixing things, Troubleshooting situations, cars, and computers, Having fun, Massages, Sex (I've been told), and bumping my head
The first things people usually notice about me
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My presence and my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: "Shantaram" !!!! historical fiction (Anchee Min's books), speculative fiction (the Chung Kuo series), fantasy (the Quantum Gravity series), spiritual (Enlightenment without God), weird humor (Christopher Moore's books) and history (The Rasputin File)
Movies: indies, spiritual/provocative, drama, adventure, thriller, hero/comic book, Chinese, and Japanese movies
Shows: the one going on around me
Music: just about anything BUT Old School Country, gangsta rap, and speed/death metal or punk.
I really enjoy Hard Rock, R&B, Blues, female Rock vocalists, fusion music that uses traditional ethnic instruments, and some trance/EDM music
Food: most anything, especially Asian along with American sandwiches, salads, and desserts! Oh, and SUSHI! lol
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good Asian food - even if it's simple
at least one good friend
Tropical Place to Live
my connection with Source
private time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1) Contemplating the infinite nature of Source
2) The inter-connected-ness of all Life
3) How the heck to find someone really cool to share this with
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
'Typical'? What's that?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a real 'soft spot' for Asian and "minority" women, real strawberry blondes, brunettes, and women that wear glasses.
You should message me if
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if you are interested in knowing more about me...especially if you would like to meet... ;)
ESPECIALLY if you are a adventurous, intelligent, sensuous, interesting, unique woman