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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:18pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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Hi there, thanks for stopping by!! I'm a happy, slightly introverted, geeky gal who is looking for a connection based on great conversations, chemistry, and lots of laughter. I'm low maintenance and prefer experiences over stuff. I love hiking/long walks, travel, classical music, cinnamon rolls, football, opera and superhero movies. Interesting combo, right? I'm not looking for someone with a perfectly matched list of interests but rather some matching interests, mutual curiosity and open-mindedness.

So what do I have to offer? Glad you asked:
1. 100% of my friends think I would be an awesome girlfriend because I'm loyal, caring and quick with a one liner.
2. I will notice your favorite beverages/snacks and keep my kitchen stocked accordingly. :-)
3. I will always be on your side and look for the best in you even when we disagree.
4. I'm always looking for new things to try so when you say, "What do you want to do tonight?" I won't just say, "Whatever you want to do." I'm a girl with ideas!!
5. Well some things you're just going to have to find out for yourself...
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a school psychologist and I feel very fortunate to have found a career that I love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying the simple pleasures in life like sleeping late on the weekends or cooking a delicious (and healthy!) meal.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Everyone says my smile. I'm usually smiling or laughing about something. I'm a glass half full person and I try to see the humor in situations rather than let things get me down.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I like historical fiction and biographies.

Movies - I tend to skew towards comedies or action movies (The Hangover, Sherlock Holmes, Iron Man, Guardians of the Galaxy, Pitch Perfect, The Avengers).

Shows - I don't watch a lot of TV but when I do: Seinfeld, Modern Family, Top Chef, documentaries on the History Channel, football.

Music - I really love opera and classical music. Favorites include La Boheme, the various Bachs, Beethoven's 7th, Brahm's 4th, La Traviata, Lalo's Symphonie Espagnole, and anything by Mozart.

Food - Indian, Greek, Thai, sushi, tapas, Mexican, Italian and Ethiopian to name a few.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family and friends of course. Also, traveling, my iPhone, music and good veggie burgers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I hope to find someone to join me for fun fall activities like eating cider and doughnuts, apple picking, and yelling at, I mean cheering for, the Bears.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out having dinner with friends, enjoying some cultural event or relaxing at home on my couch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well, it's not really private but I guess it's embarrassing if that counts. I love to sing (badly) along with the radio in my car. So if you see me out driving around you might catch me belting out the lyrics to "Bad Romance" or "Karma Chameleon". Don't worry, I don't subject passengers to this, I only pretend I'm a Grammy winning artist when I'm alone. :-)
You should message me if
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You're a funny, sweet, confident gentleman who can tell me why you'd be a great boyfriend. Basic social skills are definitely a must!! :-) Bonus points if you know the difference between compliment and complement.