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39 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:08pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I want to retire from dating. Don't get me wrong - I live the butterflies and anticipation that come with the first few dates - Will he be as cute as his picture? Does he like me? Ooh, is he going to kiss me? Good stuff. :-)

But the thing is, I don't want just the first few chapters. I want the ever after. I want to be with someone who makes me light up just because he walked in the room.

So what do I have to offer? Glad you asked:
1. 100% of my friends think I would be an awesome girlfriend because I'm loyal, caring and quick with a one liner.
2. I will notice your favorite beverages/snacks and keep my kitchen stocked accordingly. :-)
3. I will always be on your side and look for the best in you even when we disagree.
4. I'm always looking for new things to try so when you say, "What do you want to do tonight?" I won't just say, "Whatever you want to do." I'm a girl with ideas!! But I'm also laidback and can go with the flow and enjoy whatever activity you want to do too. Either way I love to be out doing different things, whether it's going for a hike or checking out a cool exhibit at a museum.
5. Well some things you're just going to have to find out for yourself...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
One of the big passions of my life is my career. I'm a school psychologist and for me every day is different because every student's needs are different so I enjoy the myriad challenges that greet me each day. I'm a huge nerd when it comes to anything relating to psychology or sociology so be prepared to occasionally hear me gush over the results of some new study that indicates things like the biological reasons why some songs become huge hits and others flop.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying the simple pleasures in life like sleeping late on the weekends or cooking a delicious (and healthy!) meal.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Everyone says my smile. I'm usually smiling or laughing about something. I'm a glass half full person and I try to see the humor in situations rather than let things get me down.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - I like historical fiction and biographies.

Movies - I tend to skew towards comedies or action movies (The Hangover, Sherlock Holmes, Iron Man, The Avengers). I recently saw Argo and liked that too.

Shows - I don't watch a lot of TV but I do like comedies like Seinfeld, Big Bang Theory and Modern Family or cooking shows like Chopped or Top Chef. I also love documentaries on the History Channel. And of course, football.

Music - I really love opera and classical music. Favorites include La Boheme, the various Bachs, Beethoven's 7th, Brahm's 4th, La Traviata, Lalo's Symphonie Espagnole, and anything by Mozart. I have no problem going to these by myself so if they're not your thing, no worries. I enjoy some current pop music too.

Food - I'm an adventurous eater and enjoy lots of different ethnic foods, including: Indian, Greek, Thai, sushi, tapas, Mexican and Ethiopian to name a few. And there's always a special place in my heart for Italian!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family and friends of course. Also, traveling, my iPhone, music and good veggie burgers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Gosh, I feel like I should put something really deep here, like world peace or the national debt. Of course, I think about those things sometimes but honestly it's pretty varied. Right now it's mostly thinking about all the fun things I want to do this summer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out having dinner with friends, enjoying some cultural event or relaxing at home on my couch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, it's not really private but I guess it's embarrassing if that counts. I love to sing (badly) along with the radio in my car. So if you see me out driving around you might catch me belting out the lyrics to "Bad Romance" or "Karma Chameleon". Don't worry, I don't subject passengers to this, I only pretend I'm a Grammy winning artist when I'm alone. :-)
You should message me if
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You're a funny, sweet gentleman who is a good conversationalist. I'm really attracted to confident, take-charge guys. Basic social skills and an open mind are definitely a must!! :-) Bonus points if you know the difference between compliment and complement.

So you've read this far - what do you think? If I sound like someone you'd want to meet and you've also been thinking that you're at a place in your life where you'd like to bow out of the dating scene, please say hi. It might work out, it might not. But hey, it only takes one. :-)