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39 F Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:06am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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So here's the deal - I can't wait to resign from online dating. I'm really happy with my life and I'd love to find someone to share it with. Someone who gets my sense of humor and indulges (or shares!!) my love of football, opera, the symphony, Starbucks and superhero movies. I feel like I have a lot to offer in a relationship. A recent unscientific poll of friends and family found they would use terms like caring,open minded, funny, up for anything and good listener to describe me. Granted, they're biased but they weren't paid!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
One of the big passions of my life is my career. I'm a school psychologist and for me every day is different because every student's needs are different so I enjoy the myriad challenges that greet me each day. I'm a huge nerd when it comes to anything relating to psychology or sociology so be prepared to occasionally hear me gush over the results of some new study that indicates things like the biological reasons why some songs become huge hits and others flop.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying the simple pleasures in life like sleeping late on the weekends, the feel of soft warm sheets fresh from the dryer and enjoying the crunch of leaves underfoot while strolling down the street on a crisp fall day.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Everyone says my smile. I'm usually smiling or laughing about something. I'm a glass half full person and I try to see the humor in situations rather than let things get me down.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I enjoy reading just about anything but my favorite books are often historical fiction. I love returning to the classics too, and I've lost count of the number of times I've read Wuthering Heights, Pride & Prejudice and others.

Movies - I tend to skew towards comedies or action movies (The Hangover, Sherlock Holmes, Iron Man, The Avengers). I recently saw Argo and liked that too.

Shows - I don't watch a ton of TV but I do like Seinfeld, Big Bang Theory, Top Chef and Project Runway. I also love documentaries on the History Channel.

Music - Such a broad category. I guess I'll just say I enjoy some current artists like Lady Gaga, Imagine Dragons, Mumford & Sons and the Lumineers. I'm definitely getting more and more into opera and classical music. Favorites include La Boheme, the various Bachs, Beethoven's 7th, Brahm's 4th, La Traviata, Lalo's Symphonie Espagnole, and anything (truly anything) by Mozart.

Food - I'm an adventurous eater and enjoy lots of different ethnic foods, including: Indian, Greek, Thai, sushi, tapas, Mexican and Ethiopian to name a few. And there's always a special place in my heart for Italian!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, friends and my cat of course. Also, traveling, my iPhone and good veggie burgers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Gosh, I feel like I should put something really deep here, like world peace or the national debt. Of course, I think about those things sometimes but honestly it's pretty varied. Right now it's mostly thinking about all the fun things I want to do this summer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out having dinner with friends, catching a concert in Millennium Park, or collapsing from exhaustion on my couch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, it's not really private but I guess it's embarrassing if that counts. I love to sing (badly) along with the radio in my car. So if you see me out driving around you might catch me belting out the lyrics to "Bad Romance" or "Karma Chameleon". Don't worry, I don't subject passengers to this, I only pretend I'm a Grammy winning artist when I'm alone. :-)
You should message me if
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You're a funny, sweet gentleman who is a good conversationalist. I'm really attracted to confident, take-charge guys. Basic social skills and an open mind are definitely a must!! :-) Bonus points if you know the difference between compliment and complement.

So you've read this far - what do you think? If I sound like someone you'd want to meet and you've also been thinking that you're at a place in your life where you'd like to bow out of the dating scene, please say hi. It might work out, it might not. But hey, it only takes one. :-)