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pastrydisaster

30 / M / Straight / Available

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 12:49am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm practical but also into all things new and different. I'm a warm person, a physical person, and a thinking and feeling person -- wow, I'm a person!
What I’m doing with my life
I've met many amazing artistic individuals on this site in the past year or two: painters, photographers, musicians, and polyamorous-foody-polyglot-poli-science-y-types among many others. This has led to some cool collaborations in photography, music, and going to brunch buffets.

I am now in a strong, collaborative, dynamic romantic relationship with the indefatigable, adaptable, sweet-talkin, and sexy Reauxbeena. We're collectively and individually seeking new experiences and new people to cook with, photograph with, and eschew traditional mores with. You know... the usual.

We've been exploring the every facet of the Bay: the natural, the man-made, and all the divisions therein, taking no thing or person for granted.

I'm taking a lot of photos and expanding my commissions as an wedding/event photographer. I'm editing lots of photos and making some silly (yet groundbreaking ) youtube videos.

When I set my heavy camera gear down I'm either getting a back massage or cooking up some good veggies and quinoa and or rice or something. Care to join (for the massage part preferably)?
I’m really good at
remembering dates and events, playing piano, creating photo narratives, documenting, making people laugh or feel awkward or both at my discretion, getting prickly for the sake of comedy, leaving the house with no particular destination, meeting strangers along the way, getting lots of parking tickets, and being really self-righteous when receiving parking tickets.
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my nose or my soul depending on how perceptive they are.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Dharma Bums, Manufacturing Consent or things by Chomsky, The Botony of Desire, Homage to Catalonia (and other things by Orwell), Heart of Darkness, things by Rebecca Solnit, things by Lao Tzu.

Woody Allen, Ingmar Bergman, Almodovar, Kubrick, Woody
Allen
Casino Royale (the 1969 parody), The Dark Knight, The Big Lebowski, Inglorious Basterds, L'Amour l'après-midi.

Pixies, Fever Ray, Massive Attack, Bjork, Steve Reich, Joey
DeFrancesco, Oscar Peterson, Vladimir Horowitz, Debussy, Radiohead, Schubert, Ween, Lou Reed, Arcade Fire, Arvo Pärt, Keith Jarrett (his neo-classical solo piano shit), Zoe Keating, Lady Gaga.
The six things I could never do without
a piano, a camera, a steno pad, chocolate (i could actually do without it, but it's more fun), water, backpack.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
hot springs, geo-political strategies, smartphone-induced ball cancer, how it's totally not cool how people wage war and such.
On a typical Friday night I am
Something non specific, howling at the moon, hanging out with someone, not hanging out with someone, getting out of town, going to a party, cooking a big meal, going to a potluck, giving up and focusing on Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm right-handed, but I do a couple things with my left.

I frequently mispell (sic) the word 'ocassion' (sic).

I can't do a free-standing handstand... yet.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You need some things clarified... either about me or other things that happen in the universe.

You would like to hang with me in some capacity and are cool that I am in a non-monogamous relationship.

You think Radiohead's recent video featuring Thom Yorke doing a five minute interpretive dance solo is a work of art.

you want to dance, sing, do some acrobatics, play some music, chat, make some food, take some pictures, or run in forests.