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patch96k

41 M Tarzana, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:27am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I grew up in NYC with a great, fun family filled
with a lot of life and love. There was always laughter, love, music, encouragement, tools,
adventure, great food and fun around us. As an
adult, all those traits are just as important to
me. I love to cook / BBQ and entertain, have a big, giving
heart for those around me, love time spent with
family and can't live without laughter or music.
I'm a big believer that life is about moments
and "the little things", that romance and
chivalry are NOT dead and that a good sense
of humor (sarcastic, slapstick.. any kind) keeps you sane. I'm always up for an
adventure, be it trying a new restaurant,
hopping in the car and hitting the road anywhere and just exploring. I've become a huge fan of Photography and love shooting anything from live music to a picturesque view. I have a
creative background working in audio field in
both film, television and music and I play a
number of instruments. Sometimes i have to
work long hours but I believe in maintaining
balance in life.

I would love to find someone who doesn't
take themselves too seriously, knows how to
laugh at life but can be serious when needed.
understands that there are ups, downs
in life and can roll with and make the best of
them. She's open minded and up for adventure
whether it's trying a new restaurant to
traveling somewhere she's never been be it
local or not. A partner who is family oriented
but also can balance work and friends. She has a
big heart towards the ones she loves and is
able to communicate her feelings and needs.
She would like to stay active and healthy and is
comfortable in her skin with a healthy outlook
physically and emotionally. Someone who
enjoys great conversation, being social, is
aware of the world around her and is not afraid
to go for what she wants. She would love to
have a family and build a home filled with love,
warmth, laughter and great memories.
What I’m doing with my life
I try to live every day to it's fullest, enjoy the people around me, and take in as much as i can.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at being myself in any situation, making new friends everywhere I go and making the people around me feel comfortable.

Recently I had a conversation that really impacted me. I was talking with my mother's old friend from her years in college. Her son and I pretty much met at birth :) She and my mom were therapists. She told my mom what a great friend and person I am and from her professional perspective, I am a great therapist just without the certification. Mind you, I have no formal training. What she said really touched me because I treat people the way I want to be treated and am always there with (from her perspective) good advice. I am really grateful to have so many wonderful people in my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sense of humor and the ablility to make people around me at ease
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm in the middle of reading "In Defense of Food" by michael Pollan and Jackie the Joke Mans Joke book.
The six things I could never do without
Laughter
Balance
Love
Great friends and family
Creativity
Sushi
On a typical Friday night I am
Up for doing anything fun with the right people from staying in cooking dinner and watching a movie, going out to see a band or just hanging out somewhere talking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ok, i'll explain it here.....I have worn women's shoes. (OK, this is more innocent then it sounds). I do Foley (sounds and sound effects for Film and TV) so if there is a scene in a movie where a woman is walking in heels... I have to walk in heels to record the footsteps. On a serious side, I live my life like an open book so I am open to talking about anything.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you want to laugh A LOT, do fun things, have great conversations, meet interesting people and you just dig being yourself.