Hard work is important.
Action creates identity.
Plotting to save the world over wine and cheese, or burgers and beer, or coffee or tea is one of my favorite pastimes. Joking about nerdy things and talking about science fiction are up there too. I would love to live above an independent coffee house next to a used bookstore, and, if possible, near good hiking trails.
I like dancing, and I'm alright at salsa and swing. I'm more at home on the dance floor with hip hop and Top 40s beats, though. I love improvisation. If I like you, I'll probably drag you to a dance floor sometime, and you'll probably enjoy it because you'll be laughing too hard at me making a fool of myself to worry about being embarrassed.
I'm playful and fairly confident, and looking for the same. Excessive self-disparagement is not charming. Genuine smiles are entrancing, laughter is beautiful, and understated confidence is sexy.