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patrickfy

26 / M / straight / Single

Los Altos, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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I am smart, funny, and adventurous.

My Self-Summary

So, I've been reintegrating myself into society lately. It's been quite fun so far -- county fairs and hot dogs, discussions about TV shows, playing with cats and dogs, and shopping at Gap for colorful clothes. I'm starting to feel like I belong somewhere now. I realize that this feeling is very much an illusion, but still that's not such a bad thing.

You see, mobility has been a key factor in my life the past few years. But, I've decided to try something normal and build a home that is a little more permanent. It's not that I think this is necessarily a good idea -- I'm simply diversifying my lifestyle, just in case.

Several years ago, I had this idea about being a global nomad -- living 3-6 months in a country at a time. Why limit my life to the country I was born in? The idea began in Los Angeles when I quit my job to run a one-man web-startup. I could work from anywhere -- and recognizing that singular opportunity, I felt a need to try living it.

I moved to London for 3 months, then to Hawaii, then to Tokyo, and along the way I took a few mini-trips to keep things interesting. I learned about good photography, efficient travel, new foods, and cultures. With a mobile lifestyle though, I realized I had to let go of most materialistic desires -- that stuff just doesn't fit on the airplane. I learned to value experiences instead, like going to theatre, museums, cultural festivals, zoos, and parks.

Still, without a permanent home, it becomes difficult to do things -- like take classes, ride a bike, have favorite TV shows, or make friends. A rolling stone gathers no moss, as they say.

So when I came back from Japan about half a year ago, I decided to try something different. I got a job, and began living like a normal person. I'm working as a software engineer, and I talk about my weekends with my coworkers. On the weekends, I play with cats and dogs or visit the local mall. It's been good so far -- life's stable, peaceful, and easy. But I'm still learning.

Well, I'm here to make friends. I assume you are too? So say hello! Cheers :)