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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 4
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Not at all
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm an outgoing, creative, professional guy who takes care of his mind (so much curiosity I drove teachers crazy) and body (boot camp!). I'm a talker; as a newspaper reporter, I try not to interview guys on dates -- but I do ask a lot of questions. I grew up by the ocean south of Boston and love the beach and the waves and water more than most anywhere else. I'm attracted to thinking guys with good hearts.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making the most of New York. Not resting on my laurels. Volunteering with the Trevor Project and other outreach work. Making plans for travel - Vancouver and Cuba up next. Career-wise, I'm a newspaper reporter, writing about politics and the 2016 presidential race now; used to cover theater and before that, reported from Iraq and Afghanistan. I have dreams of writing a book (other than the tragic one I wrote in college hahah), a play, a screenplay.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Adventure. Making plans and following through. Showing up for my friends and family. Listening, and opening up about myself. Having ideas, expressing them. Writing. Reading maps. Driving. Scoring theater tickets. Kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my shoulders, and my smile. That I listen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Walking Dead, American Horror Story, Mad Men, Homeland, Downton Abbey, Girls, Looking, THE COMEBACK.

I thought "Boyhood" was the best movie I've seen in years.

As a reader, everything from The Hunger Games to Alice Munro. I keep my books.

Theater: "Once," "Next to Normal," "Carousel," "American Idiot," "Pippin," plays by Tennessee Williams, Richard Nelson, Annie Baker, Eugene O'Neill, Albee.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My friends, my family, theater, better writing, exercise, goals, gratitude, exercise, being helpful and useful and happy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing a show or a movie, out dancing, at a game night with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I used to geek out playing bridge (and think it'd be fun to play again).
You should message me if
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You're open to being in a relationship and you like what you've read. Points for romantics, optimists, travel lovers.