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pattyfan

48 / M / Gay / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:01am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), Turkish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
HI guys. Kevin here. I'm not sure if I should try to make this short and sweet or if I should indulge my inner wanna be novelist...OK, let's go for short.

I am originally from the Bay Area and have always lived in Northern California other than spending a few years in Europe and South America. I'm pretty easy going and am hoping to expand my friend base and maybe even meet a special guy. I'm trying not to have too many expectations (is that hard for everyone or just me?) and just see what happens. I'm not really looking for hook ups though life sometimes brings surprises. I have quite a few friends who don't live in SF and who I am in touch with through email and Skype, so I'm hoping to meet guys on here that are in SF or the Bay Area and who are interested in actually meeting in real life and not just messaging back and forth. What we do is very negotiable, though I guess I should say upfront that I'm not really much into the bar/club scene.
What I’m doing with my life
Bachelor number one is an ESL teacher at a local community college and counts tennis, cooking, traveling, studying languages, singer-songwriter type music and surreptitiously looking at cute guys as some of his hobbies. Say hello to bachelor number one...
I’m really good at
Making ice cream, hitting backhands, budget traveling, my job, avoiding conflict (working on that :) ), hosting couchsurfers, listening (or at least looking like I am, thanks for that one Jill :) )

I'm just glad this wasn't titled "I really suck at" because I would have needed way more space.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmm, how could we possibly know the answer to this question? I can maybe say what I think people might notice (people sometimes say I have nice eyes) but we meet so many people who we never get to know well enough to ask them this question, right? OK, I've just way overanalyzed this. Anyway, I guess I say my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Cloud Atlas. Such an amazing book by such an amazing author. I actually love all of David Mitchell's books, but this one is just amazing.

Patty Griffin. She sings, I lose it :)

I love reading science fiction, fiction, and non fiction as well (linguistics, evolutionary biology, food stuff). Ursula K Le Guin, TC Boyle, Ian McDonald, David Leavitt, Ray Bradbury, Nick Hornby, Stefano Benni, and Eduardo Galeano are all amazing.

My musical tastes are pretty limited, I'm sorry to say, but what I like I really really like, if that makes up for my lack of breadth. Amos Lee, the Indigo Girls, Counting Crows, Jill Sobule, Mary Chapin Carpenter, Lucinda Williams, Tom Petty, Stevie Nicks/Lindsey Buckingham/Fleetwood Mac, Teddy Thompson, the Waifs, Kathleen Edwards, Dolly Parton, Tori Amos, Del Amitri all get heavy rotation at KVIN :)

I don't really watch TV, except for tennis. And 60 Minutes, sometimes.

I pretty much love all kinds of food. I guess my faves are Italian, Thai, Turkish, Burmese, and Indian. Burma Superstar, anyone? I'm vegetarian but don't really care if you are.
The six things I could never do without
It says things, so...

• my CDs
• sex (just bein' honest)
• my underwear (I mean, I love not wearing underwear too, but I
seriously think the utility of underwear is highly underrated)
• my memories (I'm counting them as things, go figure)
• the ginger cake at Tartine, followed closely by the ginger cake at
Chow
• my cheap electric orange juicer
• the Alemany farmers' market on Satuday mornings
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...Xecene and Viggo Mortensen's marriage.
...how 9 supposedly wise people, who were able to legally justify giving a corporation the same rights as a person, in the next few years, will be given the power to decide if I can get married or not.
...a complete, succinct, cogent, easily understood explanation for the differences in use between the present perfect and present perfect continuous.
...where I want to travel to next (somewhere where I've been or somewhere new, hmm, let's see)
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really have a typical Friday night. I might be at Off the Grid, or meeting friends for dinner after the gym, or just chilling at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I owned two Captain and Tennille albums when I was a kid. WHEN I WAS A KID, OK? :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
...you want to play tennis (I"m a 4.5)
...you can finish the line... Feeling stupid and hollow now the moon____________________________
...you think we might have some fun
...you want to help me learn Turkish
...you are a really good kisser
...you know someone who knows someone who knows someone who knows Patty Griffin and/or Stevie Nicks and knows that they are looking for a new piano player (I think in this case it's definitely an "or", 'cause Patty and Stevie don't run in the same musical circles...or do they? )
...you have a cute accent and want to sweep me off my feet
...you need to practice giving massages

And I'm not sure where to put this, and I don't want to offend anyone, but just so as not to waste anyone's time, if you agree with teaching creatiionism as science, then we aren't going out. Again, this is just so as not to waste anyone's time. You are allowed to think what you want. :)