I am compassionate, sensual, and warm.
My Self-Summary
Hi! Well, let's see...lets start with physical description.
5'10", 168, brn/brn, average build. Married a wonderful lady in
2002. We're one of those ex-swinger couples who got tired of the
meaningless sex a few years ago and joined the
polyamory circle instead, which
we find much more appealing. Mostly I'm here to meet like-minded
open-minded poly people for friends, possibly more, but like to
take things slow. We love new friends and dinner guests, my wife is
an awesome cook.
Personally, I have a high interest in
musical theater and am currently
the musical director of choice at a local theater that played an
important part in my growing up. No children of our own and don't
plan on any; I consider my work at the theater to be enough for me
that I make a very fulfilling difference in the lives of many
children. My other interests include
sci-fi books and
special-effects
movies that help you get away from reality. My favorite TV
shows are
Babylon
5,
Star Trek
TNG,
Xena Warrior Princess,
Hercules Legendary
Journeys, and
Six Feet Under. Also own a
cat, even though the animal lover in me primarily goes to
canines.
Love to do
puzzle
books and read
erotica.
I'm a great
intimacy lover, and don't
necessarily want sex in all my relationships. I value and
appreciate the rare woman who will respond positively to a request
to cuddle with me naked with lots of
safe touch,
snuggles, and
cuddles and no expectations beyond, and
have it be nothing but that.
I do have a healthy sexuality when I want it, and watch porn once
in a while and even have a few bits on my computer (all with wife's
full knowledge and consent.) I believe solo sex is as important as
sex with your partner of choice and have a few male toys to help
myself out.
Though I'm primarily attracted to females, I like to fantasize
about males sometimes and would love to meet a guy that I could
primarily be friends with first and have the occasional bit of
sexual fun with, only oral and touch though, I am SO not into anal
and never will be.
So there's the ramble with all the info...hope to hear your
response soon!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm looking right now to advance in the corporate world, something
having to do with auditing or running my own document control
system. In between I teach musical theater to children, or, at the
very least, play keyboard in an orchestra pit for anyone who will
have me. I can honestly say that without a show (present or future)
on my schedule, my life doesn't feel quite right, except when I
want to take a break after an exceptionally busy run. I'd love it
if I could make a living out of music, but am also realistic about
being able to pay the bills.
I’m really good at
Playing the keyboard, hugs, getting along well with most people,
several computer applications, energy exchange through physical
touch.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes or my smile.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
a) Any of the Narnia chronicles, The Phantom Tollbooth, Robert
Heinlein, Terry Pratchett, Douglas Adams, Mercedes Lackey, Piers
Anthony. any non-kinky erotica gay, bi, or straight
b) Blues Brothers (original, not the remake!), Rocky Horror Picture
Show, Repo The Genetic Opera, nearly anything Star Trek, Kung Fu
Panda, Terminator 1&2, and my horribly guilty pleasure, Red
Sonja (yes, king of all bad medieval sorcery movies!)
c) Broadway musicals (of course!), 60s-80s.
d) Pizza, clam pasta, clam chowder
The six things I could never do without
Musical theater, the people I love, hugs, my computer, friendly
dogs, and warm summer days.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What my future will bring me, and how to live in the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Musical directing a performance somewhere, or socializing with a
group...or on a date with someone special.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I have to think about this one. Ask me in person, I will likely
tell you. It always gets to that anyway, doesn't it?
You should message me if
You wish to. I'm always willing to meet someone new!