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paul_wilkins

40 M Christchurch, New Zealand

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
May 20
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I like to volunteer my time helping people with their computer problems. Aside from that I feel that I'm wanting to get more involved with feelings and things of a more emotional nature.
What I’m doing with my life
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Where am I going in life? I don't know for sure, but doing what I can to help make things better seems to be a good way of things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
helping people with their computer problems. They are supposed to be easy to use but invariably turn out not to be. So if I can help to make them even a little bit easier to use then they will get closer to being more helpful as they are supposed to be.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is that I seem to see the good side of things more often than not. The glass isn't half full, or half empty - it's always full of both air and water.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books by Terry Pratchett have been a favourite, movies that leave you with something to think about afterwards are favoured.
Musical tastes tend to run with what's on 92.1FM, with pop music from the 80's to today, but also reaches in to classical, jazz, and techno/trance music.

Favourite foods would include spaghetti bolognaise, or a roast, with pavlova or a good trifle, but there's such a wide range of good foods that it's tough to choose.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
are rationality, compassion, education, honesty, striving to improve, and good company.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to balance different competing aspects of life, where I'm going, and what I'm doing
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
relaxing while getting things ready for Saturday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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santa claus and the tooth fairy are for children, so do adults grow out of other beliefs too?
You should message me if
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you want a grounded person who's willing to look at what the more future may hold