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paulandbear

34 London, UK Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:24pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
International man of mystery. I'm smart, confident and friendly.

I've spent most of my life travelling the world and having adventures. Currently settled in London. I'm keen to find someone to share the next adventure with. :)

I'm a New Zealander (sexy/retarded accent) by birth and I go back most summers to visit my awesome family. I've lived in NZ, Australia, Singapore, Istanbul, several places in Europe, and the U.S. I'll be in London for at least 12-18 months.
What I’m doing with my life
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Traveling, working and having an awesome time. I studied neuroscience at university. Since then I've been writing code and starting technology businesses. Currently working on a very promising Big Data thing.

I don't mind kids, but I'm not having any of my own. I decided long ago that I was going to live an interesting life. I'd rather focus my energy on having great experiences with my partner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building things with computers.
Cooking.
Having great, fun, life-changing relationships.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Slim guy walking with a purpose and with superb eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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True Romance, Studio Ghibli, Tarantino, Waking Life, intellectual sci-fi.

Louis CK, Game of Thrones, House of Cards, Silicon Valley.

I like books that make me think new things.
Greg Egan for his mind and world-bending quantum mechanics-inspired hard sci-fi, and because he often has characters named Paul.

Charlie Stross for his post-singularity, economics 2.0, transhumanist geek fantasy. Also his Lovecraftian-horror-inspired corporate-bureaucracy-parodying spy thrillers.

Stephenson, Gibson, Bear, and the usual classics.

Alice Munro, to everyone's surprise.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Computers
Internet
A good kitchen
Time and space to get creative with all of the above.
Someone to love and someone to love me, ideally the same person. ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Code, design, psychology, nutrition, the kind of life I want to live.
You should message me if
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...you're a messaging people kind of person.

Also if you like science, technology, psychology, or if you're passionate about something and have some ambition. Or if you want to share travel stories/plans.

Ideally I'm looking for some long-term soulmate stuff, but in the meantime a fling is fine. :)