Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
International man of mystery. I'm smart, confident and
I've spent most of my life travelling the world and having
adventures. I'm keen to find someone I can share my awesome future
I'm a New Zealander (sexy/retarded accent) by birth and I go back
most summers to visit my awesome family. I've lived in NZ,
Australia, Singapore, Istanbul, several places in Europe, and the
What I’m doing with my life
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Traveling, working and having an awesome time. I studied
neuroscience at university and now I'm working on (yet) another
I don't mind kids, but I'm not having any of my own. I decided long
ago that I was going to live an interesting life. Not even a happy
or comfortable life, but an interesting one.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building things with computers.
Having great, fun, life-changing relationships.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Slim guy walking with a purpose and with superb eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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True Romance, Studio Ghibli, Tarantino, Waking Life, intellectual
sci-fi. Intellectual everything, actually. But not too
intellectual, of course, people more intellectual than us are
Louis CK, Game of Thrones, House of Cards, Silicon Valley.
I like books that make me think new things.
Greg Egan for his mind and world-bending quantum mechanics-inspired
hard sci-fi, and because he often has characters named Paul.
Charlie Stross for his post-singularity, economics 2.0,
transhumanist geek fantasy. Also his Lovecraftian-horror-inspired
corporate-bureaucracy-parodying spy thrillers.
Stephenson, Gibson, Bear, and the usual classics.
Alice Munro, to everyone's surprise.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good kitchen
Time and space to get creative with all of the above.
Someone to love and someone to love me, ideally the same person. ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Code, design, psychology, nutrition, the kind of life I want to
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wishing I'd arranged to meet someone lovely.
You should message me if
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...if you're a messaging people kind of person.
Sadly, date-Paul is a poor representation of relationship-Paul. The
longer you know me, the goofier and more charming I become.
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