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paulbenny

55 / M / Straight / Single

Weatogue, Connecticut

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:11pm
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am a free-thinking man. I am interested in yoga. I am kind and loyal and a good friend. I am a wordsmith--someone who appreciates an intelligent conversation. I am completely attracted to intelligence. I have traveled extensively, have climbed the Great Wall in China. I am enjoying my path and living life to the fullest.
What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
loving life, being there for my friends and family, and enjoying the ride.
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes
friendship--the kind that lasts lifetimes; love--not in the silly definition of how we say we love someone's cooking or the way an outfit looks, or the way young lovers lust physically because they are young and are supposed to, but as Fromm defines love in terms of how we love and to what degree love can be measured, even though it is not a countable noun; companionship--in terms of actually liking, enjoying, and delighting in someone's company, not tiring of their conversation at the end of an evening, but actually wanting more; good red wine--the drier the better; good books--there is not room enough here to list all of the books I cannot do without; music--in all of its varieties, except perhaps country and screaming metal sounds that do not even begin to define music for me; languages--I know it's the seventh thing, but I don't like to end on the number six. Understanding and being understood by humanity is what I could never do without--and I hope to add to my list of languages and never cease until my dying breath.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to travel as a free-spirited friend with someone who loves adventure as much as I do.
On a typical Friday night I am
enjoying the good life with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really believe world peace is possible--with effort.
I’m looking for
• Girls who like guys
• Ages 40-62
• Near me
• Who are single
• For long-term dating
You should message me if
you want to discover a man who is fun-loving and adventurous.
What I’m doing with my life
Management consulting is my current field of expertise, and I have a lot of experience in food and beverage and gaming. I am working in areas I have a strong personal interest in.

I also focus upon the five "g's" of life: geldingsandcolts, grapes, girls, gourmet and golf.
I’m really good at
Cooking and making my woman happy! Thinking creatively, learning new things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am very outgoing and engaging; I dress well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My Dinner With Andre; The Dirty Dozen, Spartacus! are all favorite movies, and I have a lot of books I enjoy, so I cannot pick just one. In terms of music, I do like Abba, Lou Christie, Carl Douglas, GoGos, B-52s, Tom Jones, Marshall Tucker, Outlaws -I could go on; I also enjoy most Mexican, Italian, and Asian (Japanese) dishes.
The six things I could never do without
Food, Shelter, Water, Woman, Horses, Exercise.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, and the meaning and purpose of our existence; speed figures, daily track variants, equities vs bonds, who is really sharp today in our country and globally, cooking, health, why with such a rich country people don't seem in the mainstream to appreciate what we have.
On a typical Friday night I am
Shopping for some good food, cooking a great dinner and watching some public television or listening to music or the radio.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I eat before I go to sleep and do not floss or brush my teeth sometimes but when I go to the dentist they rank me in the top 10 percent.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 49–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you want to meet an interesting, stable man who is a good time and you are not taking prescription drugs for depression or anxiety then send me a note; this last point is important, many of you are taking medication and that is understandable given how most of you have been treated by men!