What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
loving life, being there for my friends and family, and enjoying the ride.
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes
friendship--the kind that lasts lifetimes; love--not in the silly definition of how we say we love someone's cooking or the way an outfit looks, or the way young lovers lust physically because they are young and are supposed to, but as Fromm defines love in terms of how we love and to what degree love can be measured, even though it is not a countable noun; companionship--in terms of actually liking, enjoying, and delighting in someone's company, not tiring of their conversation at the end of an evening, but actually wanting more; good red wine--the drier the better; good books--there is not room enough here to list all of the books I cannot do without; music--in all of its varieties, except perhaps country and screaming metal sounds that do not even begin to define music for me; languages--I know it's the seventh thing, but I don't like to end on the number six. Understanding and being understood by humanity is what I could never do without--and I hope to add to my list of languages and never cease until my dying breath.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to travel as a free-spirited friend with someone who loves adventure as much as I do.
On a typical Friday night I am
enjoying the good life with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really believe world peace is possible--with effort.
I’m looking for
• Girls who like guys
• Ages 40-62
• Near me
• Who are single
• For long-term dating
You should message me if
you want to discover a man who is fun-loving and adventurous.