As far as what I'm looking for, dating is pretty much where anything has to start... if there's tons of chemistry and compatibility then I'm open to a long lasting relationship. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me, I work M-F and sometimes on weekends. I have my own businesses, I was raised that a man is suppose to take care of himself and his family.
I really like a women who knows what she wants and is not afraid to say or show it! It would be nice if you have some goals in life, a career, or are working toward advancing yourself... what I find sexy is a lady who is CONFIDENT in herself.
Instant Deal breakers:
...if you have kids and have drama with your kids dad, I’m not interested
...if you have not moved on from your last relationship please move on from this page
...I don’t have any drug or alcohol problems...if you do, well I’m sure you get it by now
...if you're on a dating site without a picture of yourself, makes me think your up to something, no spies please
...if you would rather message or txt for a long time and never meet, I like having real friends and not cyber ones
...I don't believe I have to say this but, if you looking for someone to be a finance buddy, go apply for a loan
Ladies, I'm looking for that one special lady in my life. I need a lady who can laugh at herself (and me), have great OPEN conversation and sit back and just enjoy each other company no matter what we are doing.
Sorry if this rules many out, but I'd rather get one message from someone I'm interested in than 100 messages from people I'm not.
I’m also going to say, if I don't respond to your message, its nothing personal...odds are I didn't have an instant attraction (guys are visual, its just our nature).