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19 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hello I like to think I am somewhat of a renaissance man or maybe it's just my ADD but any way I dabble in a bit of everything. One of my passions Is theater I love acting and having the music background I also love musical theater.I also enjoy the outdoors and all that they have to offer especially swimming climbing/hiking camping and things of that nature this ties in really well with my love for photography as well. Now that we have that out of the way lets get down to it, I am a classic romantic who wants a girl that I can make happy and keep entertained. My ideal girl is independent without being distant, creative in one way or another major ups for one that can paint and or draw. I also would love someone who would be willing to take dance classes with me it's a great way to stay active and bond together. I am a bit of a dork I will not lie but I love it part of what makes me is that I think and act outside of the box I'm the guy who played football in highschool and was taking leads in plays. I love to party and have a good night out with friends but I also enjoy a night in having dinner and watching a movie together, I feel like I am rambling a bit now so if you want to know more feel free to drop me a line who knows maybe we are what one another needs. 420 Friendly!!
What I’m doing with my life
I am a song writer and aspiring musician for one. I have taken quite a few music classes and eventually intend to finish out the music therapy degree I have started. Last but not least is my love for cooking. I have been cooking since a very young age and over the years I developed quite a knack for it both in and out of a restaurant. Currently i am attending California Culinary Academy to get my Cert in culinary arts so that I can open up my own catering business which will help with my finances. I work two jobs at the moment one cooking in a restaurant called Spice Kit and the other is selling chocolate at CocoaBella an importer of exotic chocolates from around the world.
I’m really good at
Singing, Song writing, Cooking, Making people laugh and feel comfortable, Sports, Acting, Dancing, Having a good time, Reading people
The first things people usually notice about me
That's hard to say most likely the fact that I am super open and energetic while still being able to chill.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Galactic, Queen, Cake, Classical, Stevie Wonder, Al Green, The Beatles, Atmosphere, The Grouch, Blue Scholars, Macklemore, Slightly Stoopid, Jimi Hendrix, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Weezer, Jazz, The Doors, B.O.B, many more.

Shows: Workaholics, Family Guy, American Dad, The league, South Park, Breaking Bad, The Office, Scrubs, The Walking Dead, The Boondocks, The Daily Show, Colbert Report, again tons more.

Food: pretty much anything being an aspiring chef I try to experience and cook as many dishes as possible from all cultures and tastes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future where life will take me, goals and what my purpose could be in the long run. I also spend a lot of time thinking about the state of the world and our country and what things could be done to help. I think a lot about people and how they work with and against eachother and how they think about and react to the people and things around them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting off of work in time to chill with whomever is down either my friends or a beautiful girl. I love going out and shaking things up a bit but also enjoy staying in and having a quite night. The one thing you will never catch me doing is moping a perfectly good friday night away!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have been known to often dance around the house in my underwear singing songs at the top of my lungs and interacting with imaginary people and inanimate objects.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–25
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners