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paulmary

37 Berkeley, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 26, 2014
Orientation
Straight
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish, Korean
My self-summary
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I find myself in a green meadow teeming with life, and I hear the calming sound of a neighboring brook. I take a deep breath and no longer fear discomfort or insecurity. What I see is the unending potential that is within me and each of us human beings. I feel whole again, like a child. I believe in magic and miracles and the freedom that comes from acceptance and letting go.

It's been an adventure for sure, and I'm excited to share it with new friends in openness and freedom.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a staff member for a graduate program at UCB. I spend a lot of my free time reading amazing books. I try to get out and climb as much as I can. I enjoy taking in the view, connecting with friends, letting my body go to some good music.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being, going with the flow, finding joy in the simple pleasures, making friends with all kinds of people and dogs and cats, understanding that it ain't no thang.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look as young as I feel, or that I have smiling eyes that morphs mischievous :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books... I would not be who I am without them. Some of them are like wise, old friends--Hesse, Steinbeck, Merton, Jung, Persig, Watts...

Good movies are almost as enriching as good books, and here are a few that are dear to me: Zelary, Barbarian Invasions, Kolya, Matrix, Kramer vs Kramer, Across the Universe, Best of Youth, Valentin, Big Fish, 12 Angry Men, Best Years of Our Lives, Nachoooo!!!

I enjoy music, theater, dance, art--all forms of human expression and creativity. And food....I love food it all its succulent variety.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love and connection
Openness and honesty
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dreams, what is real, the lie beneath it all, the beauty and quiet strength of women, what I want, silence, being, the idea of the self/individual, how many selves are contained within the ego, how everything is connected, man the anarchist, how we become whole again.
You should message me if
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"Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible." C.G. Jung