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paulmatthew

45 San Juan, PR Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 25
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm originally from the Mid-West; fortunately I escaped relatively unscathed and have lived in St. Louis, Atlanta, Houston, Los Angeles, Waikiki, San Francisco, Washington D.C. and currently San Juan, PR. I believe in karma, the golden rule, respecting the earth, good lighting and the tried and true philosophy of laughter being the best medicine. I vote for the candidate, not the party and always look both ways before crossing the street.

I am inspired, driven, and passionate.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Designer/developer by trade; traveler, conversationalist, lover, instigator, explorer, snake charmer. I'm trying, in my own way, to affect positive change in the world via charities, political action and good old fashioned responsible living (well, most of the time). As Goethe said, "Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Kissing. Making an awesome dirty marty and eggs benedict. Oh, and organizing- I love P-touching anything that will stand still.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: Invisible Monsters, anything by David Sedaris, (Naked and Me Talk Pretty One Day are GENIUS!), Truman Capote, Gustave Flaubert, Running with Scissors by Augusten Burroughs, The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera (I've read it four times), The Picture of Dorian Gray, Secret History by Donna Tartt...

MOVIES: Far too many to list...

MUSIC: Foster the People, Portishead, Muse, Bjork, Annie Lennox, Gotan Project, Madonna (of course), Goldfrapp, Lily Allen, Beyonce, Franz Ferdinand, George Michael, Ok Go!, Jet, Johnny Cash, George Sarah, London Suede, Maria Callas, Prince, R.E.M., Nina Simone, Pet Shop Boys, Robbie Willams, Tears for Fears, Sigur Ros, Siouxsie, Stereolab, Chemical Brothers, Daft Punk, Revolting Cocks, Felix da Housecat, Air, Bananarama, Paul Oakenfold, Kruder and Dorfmeister, Duran Duran, Rachmoninof, Tchaikovsky, Mozart, DeBussy.

TELEVISION: Nurse Jackie, Game of Thrones, 30 Rock, Dexter, Mad Men, United States of Tara, Divine Design, The Soup, Top Chef, Girls, Six Feet Under (one of the greatest episodics ever produced), Man vs. Wild, Will & Grace, 360 with Anderson Cooper, The Daily Show, Barefoot Countessa

FOOD: Sushi, Italian, Thai

BONUS FAVORITES: Falling asleep to the sound of rain, snowboarding in Park City, Utah, sailing in Kaneohe Bay, snorkeling in Ko'Olina, swimming/tanning in Waikiki, dancing like there's no tomorrow when inspired and knowing I gave 150% on whatever project I'm currently working on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family/friends
2. my pug
3. iPhone
4. MacBook Pro
5. passport
6. sense of humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can get a gym fit gay-approved body by eating Ben & Jerry's.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Grabbing a drink with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No comment ;)
You should message me if
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You feel like getting to know someone real, have a dark/wry sense of humor and love animals. Or you've had a few drinks and I seem especially witty/cute/(insert your flattering adjective here).