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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I am Paul and I am from Albany, NY. I graduated from Fredonia in 2010 with a Bachelor’s of music as a music education major. My primary instrument is the double bass (hence the name). I went to Bowling Green State University in Ohio for music history, but that is currently on hold.

My main interests are music and cooking. I always enjoyed music, as it helps calm me down. I like to think I am pretty good at playing the bass. While it might not be a career, I intend to continue to play for fun (either with friends or a community orchestra.) It’s fun! As for cooking, it also relaxes me and I enjoy the end product. While I do need to follow a recipe, I can produce good food (I don’t understand how cooking is hard for people). In the end, I also just love eating. Cooking for myself can at least make sure I am eating healthy. (But I also tend to eat unhealthy stuff at times as well……shhhh…….)

I currently just moved back to the area and looking for a job. Until I find a job—and save up some money—I am living with my parents. It is not ideal……but at least I have a place to live!

I am shy and I over think situations, which makes it hard for me to initiate conversations on here. I don't know what I am looking for and I do not really care about the question of being "feminine" or "masculine". I'd rather not limit myself to one type of person. (For what it's worth, I'm not sure how to classify myself. I believe I am more on the masculine side, but I don't really care. I also hate the term "straight acting".) The personality of the person--and how he fits with mine--is more important than that classification. I tend to over think and over analyze things....I don't have a type, or at least don't know my type....hard to know that as I have never been in relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
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Pushing carts....................Kind of a boring job, but hey, it's a job until I figure out what I want to do with my life....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am not sure if I would say I am really good, but playing my bass.

I am pretty good at cooking, at least when I follow a recipe. Results come out good, you won't see me on Worst Cooks in America any time soon.

Avoiding running. I hate it, I'd much rather use the elliptical.

Also eating too much at Indian Buffets
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
From some friends:
-My lips (friend describes it as "kissable"). It is funny.....I used to hate them. I guess they are all right now :)
-My eyes, which are blue-grayish. It is one of features about me that I like.
-Height, I am about 6 foot 3. Somewhat tall, but definitely not the tallest.
-If I am smiling with my mouth open, there is space between my upper teeth. While I concoct an interesting story of how that happened, the truth is, one of the teeth never grew.
-My socks don't always match the rest of my clothes. That's not a problem, is it? :P
-People say I am thin.....Not sure if I believe them yet.....I mean, I know I am much thinner than I used to be....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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-The Simpsons
-South Park
-Daily Show
-Colbert Report
-Law and Order
-Bob's Burgers

Movies:I don't watch that many movies, and do not really go to the theaters alone. That is not to say I won't go with someone. Some that I do like:
-Monty Python and the Holy Grail
-Star Wars

Though, I would be open to anything! I don't care for horror films, but I guess I would watch one if I was with someone.

Music: Classical Music mostly.

Food: I like most things, not extremely picky. I like trying (and cooking) new things.

I probably should read more books.......

More importantly than what I enjoy, I would hope that I would be able to share some interests with my partner. Especially interests that I don't already have!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Friends,Family (including my cats ((even if they are scared of me!))
-Indian Buffet. I know that I overeat at these establishments....BUT THE FOOD IS SOOOO GOOD. AND SO BAD FOR MY DIET!
-transportation (need it to carry my bass around easily)
-Coffee/tea (Coffee in the morning, tea at night)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Some people look back at the past with regret for what they did or their actions. I look back and see what I did not do, which kind of controls me to continue the same pattern. I am trying to correct this....but the past is there, and I can learn from it.

How long I want to keep this job.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe working, at home, I don't know. There is no typical Friday night when schedules change.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have never been with anyone. Reasons does not really matter (Although feel free to ask).

I am also extremely shy. Working on that.....

I have way too many pairs of underwear...............

I am terrified of mannequins. They are creepy.....

I do not hate my job.......yet.....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to. Be around my age, and location (within 1.5-2hrs ideally. But will travel more).

Have a car. I don't want to be the only one driving. (Suburb living, unfortunately isn't conducive to mass transit). There could be exceptions to this rule, but it would involve being in NYC/Boston where I could get down by train/bus.

I won't respond if you don't have a picture.