Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My name is Paul and I am from Albany, New York. I am currently in
Bowling Green, Ohio for grad school. I am seeking a Masters in
Music for Music History. I have already achieved a BM in Music
Education at SUNY Fredonia.
I am shy and I over think situations, which makes it hard for me to
initiate conversations on here. I don't know what I am looking for
and I do not really care about the question of being "feminine" or
"masculine". I'd rather not limit myself to one type of person.
(For what it's worth, I'm not sure how to classify myself. I
believe I am more on the masculine side, but I don't really care. I
also hate the term "straight acting".) The personality of the
person--and how he fits with mine--is more important than that
classification. I tend to over think and over analyze things....I
don't have a type, or at least don't know my type....hard to know
that as I have never been in relationship.
I have answered far too many questions.............I get
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At a major crossroad. Not quite sure if finishing the thesis is
actually worth my time and mental energy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am not sure if I would say I am really good, but playing my
I am pretty good at cooking, at least when I follow a recipe.
Results come out good, you won't see me on Worst Cooks in America
any time soon.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
From some friends:
-My lips (friend describes it as "kissable"). It is funny.....I
used to hate them. I guess they are all right now :)
-My eyes, which are blue-grayish. It is one of features about me
that I like.
-Height, I am about 6 foot 3. Somewhat tall, but definitely not the
-If I am smiling with my mouth open, there is space between my
upper teeth. While I concoct an interesting story of how that
happened, the truth is, one of the teeth never grew.
-My socks don't always match the rest of my clothes. That's not a
problem, is it?
-People say I am thin.....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
-Law and Order
Movies:I don't watch that many movies, and do not really go to the
theaters alone. That is not to say I won't go with someone. Some
that I do like:
-Monty Python and the Holy Grail
Though, I would be open to anything! I don't care for horror films,
but I guess I would watch one if I was with someone.
Music: Classical Music mostly.
Food: I like most things, not extremely picky. I like trying (and
cooking) new things.
I probably should read more books.......
More importantly than what I enjoy, I would hope that I would be
able to share some interests with my partner. Especially interests
that I don't already have!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-transportation (need it to carry my bass around easily)
-Coffee/tea (Coffee in the morning, tea at night)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Some people look back at the past with regret for what they did or
their actions. I look back and see what I did not do, which kind of
controls me to continue the same pattern. I am trying to correct
this....but the past is there, and I can learn from it.
Also: If I should delete this, keep it, or make a new one.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging around the apartment, or with friends. How exciting.....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have never been with anyone. Reasons doesn't really matter
(Although feel free to ask).
I am also extremely shy.
You should message me if
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If you want to. Be around my age, and location (within 1.5-2hrs
I won't respond if you don't have a picture.
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