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26 M Bowling Green, OH

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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary

My name is Paul and I am originally from Albany. New York. I am currently in Bowling Green, Ohio for grad school. I am attempting to achieve a Masters in Music for Music History, and I should be done within the year. I have already achieved a BM in Music Education at SUNY Fredonia.

I am quiet, at least at first, and reserved. I am able to open up more once I know a person better, but I am still far too timid. I am not sure what I am looking for and I don't really care about the question of being "feminine" or "masculine". (For what it's worth, I'm not sure how to classify myself. I also hate the term "straight acting". It just bothers me.) The personality of the person--and how he fits with mine--is more important than that classification. I tend to over think and over analyze things....I don't have a type, or at least don't know my type....hard to know that as I have never been in relationship.

Thanks for reading my profile!
What I’m doing with my life
Just finishing up my master's degree. I just have to write a thesis and then I am done. Not sure what I want to in the future, but I'll be happy when I am done with school!

I also rejoined the gym. I would LOVE to lose another 20 pounds. Although if that does not happen, it would not be the end of the world. I am becoming more content with my current weight.
I’m really good at
I am not sure if I would say I am really good, but playing my bass. I have been playing since the Fifth grade, and went to undergrad for Music Education that gave me hour long lessons for 4 years. I'd like to think that I have become a good player since then.

I am decent at cooking as well. I do not have the courage to cook without a recipe, but I can produce decent tasting food when following a recipe!
The first things people usually notice about me
From some friends:
-My lips (Friend describes it as "Kissable"). It is funny.....I used to hate them.
-My eyes. Blue-grayish. Nice looking eyes, if I do say so myself
-Height. I am 6'3"-6'4". I would not classify myself as extremely tall, but I am definitely not short.
-Glasses. I have been considering contacts, but I am not sure as I am not comfortable with my finger close to my eye
-My smile. I tend to smile a lot I think.
-Brown hair. Used to always have short hair, but I now like my hair (relatively) longer. Need a haircut soon, though.
-The space in between my upper teeth. I am missing a tooth, never grew in.

I'm not sure what else...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-Restaurant Impossible
-Hell's Kitchen
-Kitchen Nightmares
-The Simpsons
-South Park
-Law and Order and SVU

Movies:I don't watch that many movies, and do not really go to the theaters. That is not to say I won't go with someone. Some that I do like:
-Monty Python and the Holy Grail
-Star Wars
-Pirates of the Caribbean: Curse of the Black Pearl.

Though, I would be open to anything!

(I do have a soft spot foe Muppet's Christmas Carol)

Music: Classical Music mostly. The area I like is 20th century Soviet music, such as Shostakovich, Prokofiev, Schnittke, Gubaidulina, Weinberg.

I don't hate popular music, it just doesn't interest me as much. Wouldn't mind someone broadening my horizons!

Food: Almost anything that I have tried. Not at all picky, although I am currently counting calories in order to lose weight. I love seafood. Salmon is currently my favorite. I also like pork, chicken, and steak (although I prefer pork and chicken to steak).

More importantly to what I enjoy, I would hope that I would be able to share some interests with my partner. Especially interests that I don't already have!
The six things I could never do without
1) Family and friends. I am lucky enough to have people in my life that care about me and support me. I do group them together, as they are both groups I want to be around and cannot see myself losing.

2) Music and my instrument. It has been a part of my life since the 4th grade, and music is always stuck in my head.

3)Maybe not forever, but while I do have it: health and mobility. Lucky enough up to now to have both.

4) My mind. Not necessarily intelligence (but would be nice if I kept that), but sanity. Know that even in rough patches, my mind is still my own.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Just life in general. What I want to do in the future, and how I want to improve myself. I want to be less socially awkward, especially around people I find attractive. I want to learn how to be more outgoing and withdraw into my own mind less.

The future is an interesting thought. I wonder where I will end up, with what kind of job, person.....

Why okcupid changes its damn format all the time......ok, I don't spend a lot of time thinking about it, it's just strange.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either hanging around my apartment or with friends. Not really into the bar scene, but I'll go if people are going.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have never been in a relationship mostly due to my insecurities over my weight. I'm a little afraid at the prospect, and am afraid of making the first move. But I will have to get over that if I want to be in a relationship.

Also I have never had a real job.........been focusing on school....
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to, you think I am decent looking, and not repulsed by the fact I have never been in a relationship. I am going to try to be better at responding. Please have a picture, and be relatively close (within a few hours)

A conversation always starts with "hello".