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26 M Bowling Green, OH

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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
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Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Rather not say
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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My name is Paul and I am originally from Upstate New York. I am currently in Bowling Green, Ohio for grad school. I am seeking a Masters in Music for Music History. It has taken me longer than I have ever planned. I have already achieved a Bachelor's of Music in Music Education at SUNY Fredonia.

I don't know what I am looking for and I don't really care about the question of being "feminine" or "masculine". I'd rather not limit myself to one type of person. (For what it's worth, I'm not sure how to classify myself. I believe I am more on the masculine side, but I don't really care.) I also hate the term "straight acting". It may bother me more than it should, but to me, it feels like there is something wrong with being gay. I may be looking to much into this....) The personality of the person--and how he fits with mine--is more important than that classification. I tend to over think and over analyze things....I don't have a type, or at least don't know my type....hard to know that as I have never been in relationship. I am more of an introvert.

Ask if I missed anything....I also have a harder time making the first move...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am just finishing up my degree. All I need to do is to just write this damned thesis. The future is still up in the air, and rather trying to plan it, I'll see what happens next.

STILL trying to lose some weight. Not as much as before, but I still want to lose 5-ish pounds and tone my body. Still, I am much healthier than I was before I went on this massive weight loss journey.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am not sure if I would say I am really good, but playing my bass. I have been playing since the Fifth grade, and went to undergrad for Music Education that gave me hour long lessons for 4 years. I'd like to think that I have become a good player since then.

I am decent at cooking. I do not have the courage to cook without a recipe, but I can produce decent tasting food when following a recipe!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
From some friends:
-My lips (Friend describes it as "Kissable"). It is funny.....I used to hate them. I guess they are all right now :)
-My eyes, which are blue-grayish. It is one of features about me that I like.
-Height, I am about 6 foot 3. Somewhat tall, but definitely not the tallest.
-Glasses. I have been considering contacts, but I am not sure as I am not comfortable with my finger close to my eye
-My smile. I tend to smile a lot I think.
-Brown hair.

I'm not sure what else...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
-The Simpsons (Probably my favorite show)
-South Park
-Law and Order (and the SVU version)
-Bob's Burgers
-Bones (Not my favorite, but enjoyable. Going through the first season on netflix)

Movies:I don't watch that many movies, and do not really go to the theaters. That is not to say I won't go with someone. Some that I do like:
-Monty Python and the Holy Grail
-Star Wars
-The Muppets (blast from my child hood!)

Though, I would be open to anything! I don't care for horror films.

(I do have a soft spot for Muppet's Christmas Carol)

Music: Classical Music mostly. The area I like is 20th century Soviet music.

Also, Weird Al.

Food: I like most things, not extremely picky. At this moment, I like fish (salmon is my favorite), Chicken, and pork the most. I am open to variety of things though! I like trying (and cooking) new things.

And who doesn't like Pizza?

More importantly to what I enjoy, I would hope that I would be able to share some interests with my partner. Especially interests that I don't already have!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Family and friends. I am lucky enough to have people in my life that care about me and support me. I do group them together, as they are both groups I want to be around and cannot see myself losing.

2) Music and my instrument. It has been a part of my life since the 4th grade, and music is always stuck in my head.

3)Maybe not forever, but while I do have it: health and mobility. Lucky enough up to now to have both.

4) My mind. Not necessarily intelligence (but would be nice if I kept that), but sanity. Know that even in rough patches, my mind is still my own.

5) Coffee. Need to wake up somehow, right?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Some people look back at the past with regret for what they did or their actions. I look back and see what I did not do, which kind of controls me to continue the same pattern. I am trying to correct this....but the past is there, and I can learn from it.

Also, how to think less.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing what I always do, Pinky. Try and take over the world!

I mean.....Hanging around the apartment, or with friends....the fun life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have never been in a relationship mostly due to my insecurities over my weight (and I know that I should be past this point now). I'm a little afraid at the prospect, and am afraid of making the first move. But I will have to get over that if I want to be in a relationship. I am a bit of a coward
You should message me if
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If you want to, I guess. Please be around my age, and location. I probably won't respond if you don't have a picture.