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paulsbjim

29 / M / Straight / Single

Oxford, United Kingdom

His Details

Last Online
Today – 4:51am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hi there :) I'm a resident of Oxford as of some five-and-a-bit years (!) ago after taking a job here and moving from "way up North". People tell me I don't even have an accent these days :/ (But I will never say "barth" or "grarss". Never). I like my work but it's covered in computer using men like myself so I'm always looking for a chance to meet people outside that particular group.

Games are my passion, and I would be happy to explain why that is and how they're not just for kids or playing soldier. I also like films a lot, plus the usual music and a bit of reading blah blah. I like going out for drinks on occasion, even if it does often lead to me inadvertently shaming myself in some way. Oh and I play football every now and then.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a video games programmer, and if you think that sounds interesting then yes, it's everything you think it is and more. At least it's nice to do something I genuinely have an interest in, and don't wake up thinking "why do I even bother" every morning for the rest of my existence. I also make my own games with a view to being massively successful one day but don't tell my boss.
I’m really good at
Falling over. I don't very often, but when I do it is spectacular. I have a long way to fall.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height (6'3") I would guess. I don't smell particularly, so I'm going with that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I read at a glacial pace, but I do like a classy sci-fi. For favourite I'll go with The Forever War by Joe Haldeman.
Movies: All sorts, probably Shawshank Redemption at a push but I'll go to the cinema to see just about anything remotely worthwhile. Cinema doesn't judge me. I'm safe in there.
Music: Again quite broad taste, generally things with a bit of energy, a bit of feeling. I seem to tend towards pop/indie/rock. I enjoy numerous female singer-songwriters and have an enormous soft spot for Indie/Midwest emo stuff. I've also tried to pick up bass myself in recent times.
Food: Most things with meat in. Bacon is great.
The six things I could never do without
Basic nutrition
Lovely/friendly/sexy people
My PC
A medium to pour my brain-thoughts into
Humour
Six more things...?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-Ideas that could one day form my masterpiece
-Where my next beer is coming from
-Clever, intelligent things
-Other things
On a typical Friday night I am
Drunk. With friends of course: I'm not some kind of hopeless alcoholic, it's purely a social thing!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you know words and stuff.