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pauly_p

35 M Hackensack, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:44pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Administration
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
At the moment enjoying working on myself and always growing! Eternal optimist. I love laughing, being silly, and nurturing close relationships. I love music, movies, nature, life, & the little things. I have a never-ending jukebox going in my head, and I don't mind it so much. I hate tangled wires, I like eating frozen vegetables when they're still frozen, I'm a spiritual and outdoorsy person, and I laugh a lot. I love sitting in diner booths, kissing in the rain, dancing, and good friends on a Saturday afternoon. Favorite smells include: mowed grass, lumber, rain, tilled dirt, old books, coffee, Play-Doh, clean laundry, new shower curtains, Home Depot...lives well in the city but a country boy at heart.

I am caring, friendly, and goofy
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I came to NYC on vacation 4 years ago and decided to stay. I'm working admin while studying herbalism, yoga and venturing back to my film school roots with video editing. I'd love to travel the world, be of service and help others transform their lives (and save the Earth!). I value my alone time as much as socializing. I try to balance my time with meditation/spirituality, mind-body boot camp, Budokon yoga, dancing, making mixtapes, TV marathons, cooking, and generally being silly. Laughter really is the best medicine!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making themed/seasonal mixtapes, audio editing, laughing, making silly puns, listening, coming up with movie theme nights, surprise romantic gestures, noticing details, enjoying the little things
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes, sense of humor and friendliness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This is a loaded question! Here we go...
BOOKS: Clive Barker, Roald Dahl, Oscar Wilde, Stephen King, Rilke, Edgar Allan Poe, Christopher Penczak, spiritual journeys and self-discovery, metaphysical books

MOVIES: Edward Scissorhands, Little Monsters, Donnie Darko, Being John Malkovich, Amelie, Green Mile, Moulin Rouge, 12 Monkeys, Mulholland Drive, Pretty Woman, Aliens, City of Lost Children, Beetlejuice, Fight Club, Talented Mr. Ripley, Sin City, Closer, In Dreams, Dark City, The House of Yes, Very Bad Things, Young Frankenstein, Big Fish, Freaks, Metropolis, The Matrix, Wilde, Sleeping With the Enemy, Steel Magnolias, The Pelican Brief, The Ugly, Funny Games, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Dancer in the Dark, Distant Voices Still Lives ...the list goes on and on

MUSIC: Björk, Annie Lennox/Eurythmics, Erykah Badu, White Ghost Shivers, Squirrel Nut Zippers, Deee-Lite, Bat for Lashes, Florence + the Machine, La Roux, Dead Can Dance, The Tea Party, Skunk Anansie, Orbital, Daft Punk, Chemical Brothers, Richard X, Janet Jackson, Michael Jackson, White Stripes, Alison Krauss, Patty Griffin, Depeche Mode, Cyndi Lauper, Pat Benatar, Olive, Amon Tobin, Madonna, Jega, Wamdue Project, Spacetime Continuum, Future Sound of London, Billie Holiday, Big Maybelle, Fred Astaire, Johnny Hartman, most '80s

FOOD: Breakfast, Tex Mex, Indian and many more
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family/friends, breakfast food, nature, animals, music, laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the wonder of nature/the universe, inside jokes, singing songs in my head, the songs going on my current mix, what's for dinner
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working at a wellness studio before meeting up with friends for drinks or going to bed at 10pm
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
it's private
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you have a sense of adventure and like being silly. If you love the outdoors and aren't afraid to get dirty. If you're contemplative and reflect on your life. If you're mature and compassionate but don't take things too seriously.

I would love to meet someone who is passionate about something, who inspires me and is ready to be inspired and have adventures. Ideally I'd like to date a like-minded outdoorsy, spiritual person so we can explore that together...so I don't always have to be the damn hippie! :P