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payn8tention222

18 / M / gay / Single

Andover, Massachusetts

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on high school
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am laid-back, straight-forward, and experiencing.

My Self-Summary

I'd prefer for a person to get to know me through chatting, but I know that on these online dating sites this 'self-summary' crap is a necessary evil. I'll try my best to cover the basics.
I'm out of the closet and am comfortable with my sexuality, and I say this only because I know there are a lot of other gay 18 year olds who aren't, unfortunately. I'm pretty laid-back and don't usually have significant preferences so I tend to go along with the plans of people who do have a significant preference.

I've noticed there are people who pass some judgements on me because they look at me through this "short, cute, naive and innocent" perspective, and have an idea that I talk a certain way, and act a certain way, but that's not always the way I am. I mean, not to say that I'm promiscuous either...okay, I'm realizing this paragraph isn't really telling to much about me. I guess what I'm saying is if you've stereotyped me (intentionally or not) then you might find that your assumption is a bit off =P.

What I’m doing with my life

Highschool right now.
Also, I've been a bit sheltered and I've been trying to fix that by getting out and gathering experiences.

I’m really good at

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't know, maybe my height?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Book: I haven't read much, but I like Where the Red Fern Grows.

Movie: Maybe 'i am sam'

Music: It changes, but One Headlight by the Wallflowers has been a song I've always loved.

Food: Cheesecake

The six things I could never do without

Music, internet, my dog, gum, vacation, writing

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Many things.
Guys, dreams, lists of things (slogans, ways to split the alphabet, objects associated with a show or movie, things that are 1 out of 7, etc.), metaphors, when I'm bored sometimes I let my mind go on a very random tangent, sometimes I come up with obscure thoughts like "woah, because our reflexes aren't instantanious, we are ALWAYS seeing, hearing, smelling, feeling, basically living in the past..."

On a typical Friday night I am

inviting friends over. Or rather, they call to see if I'm having friends over and I say 'yes'.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

If I feel inferior to someone, I easily convince myself they are arrogant.
If I actually do like someone, that means I have some expectation that they will like me (I don't like what I can't catch) so when someone I like doesn't end up liking me, I again convince myself they are arrogant. As a result, I dislike every guy I've liked in the past (which really isn't too many). If you can't tell, I really can't stand arrogant people. And I realise how messed up and complicated that sounds, but it works for me.

You should message me if

your intentions of messaging me aren't to see if I'm your soul-mate. Also not looking for someone to fuck me.

Hopefully I didn't just shoot down half the people on this site. My apologies if you managed to read this novel of a profile just to find out now you no longer have any reason to talk to me =P

At this point, I'm looking for a boyfriend, plain and simple.