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43 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:45am
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
Has cats
English, Italian (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was born and raised in NYC and have lived in SF since 2000. My family is from southern Italy and I identify very strongly with my heritage.

I'm looking for a meaningful connection with someone who is grounded, engaging and engaged with the world around him. I seek someone who, while focused, is funny and able to have fun. I believe very strongly that the privilege one has comes with a responsibility to contribute to the community in which one lives. I have a full life and am looking for someone who can appreciate that. I make it a priority to be present for those who mean a lot to me. Shall we dance?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in public health and love the work that I consider myself lucky to do each and every day. My job is demanding but I make sure to dedicate time and attention to my life beyond my career. I stay active after hours: volunteering, doing pilates and yoga, running, dancing, hiking, travelling, spending time with friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, eating, dancing, making another person feel heard and valued, coming up with any and all excuses to procrastinate, telling it like it is.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue salt and pepper attentiveness.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sun (why do I live in SF?!)
bodies of water
good food
quiet time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to inspire and support others to live their life to the fullest and realize their value and potential
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Meeting friends for a drink, a meal, an art opening. I am just as likely to go home and spend time with my cat unwinding from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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As outgoing as I am, I am a very private person.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like my profile, you believe in social justice, you're looking for a long term relationship and especially if you love to cook and dance (preferred not required).