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pchefintrainig

32 / F / Straight / Single

San Mateo, California

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 4:50am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a genuine person who loves people. My relationships with my family and friends, both old and new are the most important things to me. None of us are perfect, but I appreciate people who try to do their best most of the time. There is nothing better than a good sense of humor and I am a total sucker for someone who can make me laugh (often)! Life is short.. So I try my best not to stress about the small stuff. I am trying to act on my dreams and build the best life I can (one awesome experience at a time). I am very social, but hate being the center of attention. Traveling to places both, near and far is something that I love to do. I think the different experiences we get from traveling open our eyes and hearts in a way nothing else can. Getting a rise out of someone through "healthy" debate excites me and I appreciate other people's opinions. Cooking for others and entertaining are two of my favorite things. Being in a room full of happy people that I cherish makes me smile. While I can get dolled up and love doing so, I can just as easily sit in the dirt by a campfire any day of the week (although easier done on weekends) :)
What I’m doing with my life
I recently graduated from pastry school and am looking forward to having a little social time back. Working full time and going to school three days a week took a toll on the last six months of my life, but it was an amazing experience! I'm now focusing on trying to land an externship, but in the meantime, trying to have as much fun as I can. Getting out of town, listening to live music, visiting with friends, trips to see my family... Being outdoors, drinking wine and eating good food. I am also trying very hard to get back into the city. Spend a lot of my time there and love all that it has to offer!
I’m really good at
I am the social organizer in almost ever circle of my life. I am good at putting people at ease, making them laugh and trying to (almost always) look on the bright side of things. I know the lyrics to almost any song after I've heard it a time or two (gift?), but artists names...I need help with. I enjoy listening to people and am a good sounding board for many of my friends. Keeping an open mind is something I consciously work on and I think it shows :)
The first things people usually notice about me
My height and my smile if we are talking physically. I'm not a giant, but I do love heels so on most days I'm about 6'1 with the shoes. Apparently that's tall for a girl?!?! :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've never been much of a book reader. My coffee table is covered with food, wine and travel magazines, but definitely couldn't list any recently read books. However, my favorite book is Frankenstein.
One of my top movies is 500 Days of Summer. I also have a tendency to watch A Christmas Story repeatedly during the month of December.
Love, love, love most kinds of music. Seeing music performed live is one of my favorite things to do. I don't often have the TV on, but when I do I can't help but watch two things: Food Network (CHOPPED!) and really bad reality TV (RHW of..) Music is playing all the time and when it's not I am usually or singing to myself.
Food.. well.. I'll try almost anything once. My favorite kind of food is probably Mediterranean, but I'd hate to rule anything out. Trying new places and eating new things is super fun!
The six things I could never do without
1) (maybe 2) Family and friends: I've been blessed to have amazing people in my life that mean the world to me
2) Wine: Don't judge!
3) Physical Activity: the gym, running, hiking, etc..
4) Music
5)Travel
6) Peanut Putter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where else I might end up living through my life
On a typical Friday night I am
Out of the house.. Either at dinner, drinks, shows, etc... I have a hard time sitting around doing nothing. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy dinner and movie marathon nights at home but I do enjoy being with my friends making memories.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sucked my thumb until I was way too old to be doing so. Then paid the price by having to wear head gear for a few years... Good thing I stopped before I signed up for this.. :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You think we might have a fun time getting to know one another.