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46 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:29pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Special Diet
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I ask for much out of my life and am looking for someone similar.

***** Seeking an honest, respectful partner/relationship only. *****

mostly vegetarian or vegan
live with integrity
single & emotionally available
a giver
but not I'm-spending-my-life-watching-TV/sports kinda way!
funny enough to make me laugh out loud often. Humorous like Albert Brooks, Craig Ferguson, Peter Sagal or Groucho Marx
have your soul intact and have not sold out to The Man, the woman, the kid/s, the dollar, or some dogma.

I am looking for a partner to explore life's fun, such as bicycling and music and cultural events. Especially someone appreciative of the Arts and/or architecture and design.

Me: 100% authentic: NO fake/enhanced body parts, tattoos, piercings, perfumes or superficiality.
Low maintenance with product, high maintenance for both love and affection.
Quite fun, curious and free-wheeling, i am a unique female that takes good care of and respect for herself.
Goofy, active, spontaneous, courageous, generous and open-minded - yet mature and knowledgeable - I've not a lotta baggage dragging along: no kids or ex-husbands.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being creative and strategizing for the next leaps...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being amused and laughing: my most favorite way of being.
I'm madly sensory sensitive; so a lot of creative stuff.
Being curious.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Either my eyes, my smile or my lips.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Reading is my first love; getting lost for hours at a time while in a library is likely. Favoring classic & Pulitzer-winning fiction (Invisible Man, The Shipping News, Catch-22) I agree that there isn't time to read good books; rather, read just the great ones.
Other good stories sought with:
This American Life
The Moth
Documentaries as seen on Frontline and POV. B&W films on TCM, although I have no TV & have rarely watched it for well over a decade.
Music is a huge part of my raison d'etre: flowing to a wide variety throughout a good day: a frequent House head, opera, classical, especially Mozart and solo piano pieces, jazz, Cuban Son, Brazilian lilts and good 80s pop (The Smiths,Madness,Depeche Mode, Elvis Costello). WBAI, WFMU, KEXP and WNYC are favorite stations. Rhythm is the pulse of my life.
Quality multi-flavored but simply-prepared foods, mostly vegan; because it's most sensible for immunity, sustaining best health and sharing compassion for other beings.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides life's necessities, I cherish:
Being close with family and a few select friends
Sunshine and being outdoors in the warmth
Actively expressing myself through words, movement, laughter and other creativity every day; usually while listening to great music
Touch and massage
A good pen & paper
Obsessively-soft, white 100% cotton bed linens
Absorbing reading material: WSJ, NYT, compelling stories/ mythology
My bicycle for commuting daily around Manhattan
Fragrant roses
Did I mention Touch?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people and things behave and change over time, including myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I enjoy privacy.
You should message me if
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You are happy, laugh generously, have a passion for life, are actively engaged in mindful living...and want an amazing partner to share that with: let's go!

While I thank you for your interest, I respond to those gentlemen most compatible; good luck to you! Peace.