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43 F Portland, OR

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Today – 4:15am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I just moved back to Portland after two years living and teaching in Bali, Indonesia. Although I loved my time there and my travels throughout Asia, I’m ready to be home and very ready to find a good man and settle in a bit. I’m an independent woman who also knows the importance of a relationship and intimacy. Quite frankly, I’m done with doing it alone. I value companionship and tenderness and being on each other’s side. I’ll root for you. I’m looking to stretch, learn, share and know another person…really know one another.

I like to play outdoors and moving my body is part of my every day. I’m completely addicted to riding my bike around this fantastic city. I have a great community, healthy life, laugh a lot, but am missing the other half of my comedy duo. Witty banter is a necessity and so is a good physical connection. Know now that the physical connection comes after the mind and heart connection. For me, especially at this point in my life, it’s just better …in more ways than one. Now that I'm back I realize that I'd like to share my time here in Portland with a fantastic guy. So, here I am, on this site, looking.

Who am I? I am definitely a happy person. Also, I am sensitive and romantic, searching for the extraordinary in the day to day, yet enjoying the simple and not sweating the small stuff. I think that laughing is necessary every day, plus so much can be diffused with humor.

I start and end my day with gratitude, since I'm incredibly lucky to be in this life. I love that I get to live in Portland. I'm fit, I get to ride my bike wherever I want to go, and I am able to do the things I want to in life when I put my mind to it.

I'm looking for someone who is confident, secure with himself, sweet and funny. I'd also like to surround myself with people who are intentional and devote some of their time to making the world a better place...even in the smallest way. We've got to give back as we play, play, play!

I'm a passionate woman and am looking to meet a quality man for a committed romance, friendship and relationship. If you found yourself nodding at all while reading this... drop me a line. What the hell...taking risks is what it's all about! 
What I’m doing with my life
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Happy Hour, Laughing, Snorkeling, Traveling, Teaching, Relaxing, Reading, Thinking, Writing, Making travel plans, Yoga, Laughing, Laughing, Laughing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Kissing, being witty, being a great friend, cooking breakfast, making popcorn, gathering folks together for outings, getting outside and being active.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a ginger.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I loved "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest" and "Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close". I really love to read and often have a few going at once.

A few of my favorite movies: Harold and Maude, Magnolia, The Royal Tenenbaums, Amelie, The Station Agent, Searching for Sugarman, and most any documentary.

I like a lot of music...what's top on my ipod? ...Patty Griffin, Ryan Adams, Beyonce, Bon Iver, Johnny Cash, Beck, Lucinda Williams...
I mostly listen to podcasts these days:
This American Life, Strangers, WTF, Radio Lab, Savage Love, etc. etc.

Arrested Development is the best show ever. I also liked Dexter, Orange is the New Black, Mad Men, 30 Rock, and...True Blood (yes, I admit it).

Food. Yes. I like food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
natural beauty
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to quiet my brain, equity, being better and better, the weekend, serendipity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends to happy hour then home to get a good night's sleep. I like mornings.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think this question is just silly... if I told you, on the internet, then it wouldn't be private anymore. Silly.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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