First thing you need to know about me: I am married, and not looking to change that fact. Lorderiklebeau and I have been married for almost fifteen years now, and we are polyamorous. If you don't know what that means or think it means we're swingers, then stop reading now, go read this page, and then come back.
I am not looking for a fuckbuddy. I've no interest in casual sex. I WILL NOT HELP YOU CHEAT ON YOUR PARTNER! I am looking for someone, man or woman, interested in exploring an actual dating relationship. I am looking for someone for myself. Not for sharing. I am not recruiting a third for my husband. I've no interests in threesomes or the like. I merely desire a secondary relationship, one-on-one, in addition to my marriage.
Now, that said, I would still prefer someone who identifies as bisexual (or variations thereof: pan-, sapio-, etc). The reason is that even though I'm not looking for a threesome, I want someone who will at least get along with my husband, and as we are both bisexual, we have had the best luck in friends with people who identify similarly.
I'm a homebody; I don't often go out socially. Crowds tend to bother me, but I do enjoy going out to supper or to see a movie. If a show or performer is traveling through the city that I would like to see, I make it a point to venture out. I am not afraid of the world; I just prefer the comforts and privacy of my own home. I like having people over to my house for game night where I cook and we spend hours playing Cards Against Humanity, Munchkin, or any other game and laughing.
Also, I am a large woman. If that doesn't work for you, then don't waste your time or mine by messaging. And if we don't have a match percentage of at least 60%, then don't even bother.
I am imaginative, dedicated, and ironic.