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peculiarflower

24 / F / bisexual / Seeing someone

San Jose, California

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Ethnicity
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Swahili (Okay)

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I am multi-faceted, neurotic, and lyrical.

My Self-Summary

I'm a multi- faceted artist/musician and a rolling stone/vagabond. I spend obscene amounts of time reading poetry, plays, and musician's autobiographies and biographies.

The smell of libraries and old paper are quite arousing.

The best way to describe myself is that I'm somewhat of a "Renaissance woman," in that my interests have always been scattered all about... though the areas where I have some level of expertise in are all grouped in the fine arts.

For those of you who like lists, I include the following that puts my interests in a nutshell:

music, mindfulness, art, musical instruments, mixing cocktails, musical theatre, books, teas, coffees, philosophy, gourmet foods and cheeses, fine wines, meditation, world religions and religious texts, yoga, knowledge

What I’m doing with my life

Writing poetry, songs, and prose.

Reading poetry and prose.

Collaging, painting or taking photographs, traveling a bit and attempting to adjust to life post-college while considering heading back to school for another degree (though I am not certain if I can handle the mind numbing that seems to go in hand with most college course work. I am a fairly independent thinker and schools and I haven't really gotten along well).

Also attempting to adjust to life in a new city.

I’m really good at

thinking deeply, deep breathing exercises, making music, creating various forms of art, and being brutally honest with myself and others (if they so desire).

The first things people usually notice about me

Physically:My small teeth, hair, or breasts. Characteristically:I am very direct.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books/Authors: Maya Angelou,This I Believe- The Personal Philosophies of Remarkable Men and Women, The Dream Keeper, The Bell Jar, The Big Book for Peace, Everything You Need to Know About the Music Business, Inside the Music Business, Eat Love Pray, Shakespeare, David Sedaris, Joyce Carol Oates. Magazines: National Geographic, Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Health, Psychology Today

Movies: Arsenic and Old Lace, The Talented Mr. Ripley, On the Waterfront, Dr. Zhivago, Capote, Kinsey, Amelie, He Loves Me He Loves Me Not, The Good The Bad and The Ugly, Monty Python And The Holy Grail, The Dark Knight, La Vie En Rose, The Life Of David Gale

Music: Odetta, Juliet Turner, Rilo Kiley, Bob Marley, Missy Higgins, Norah Jones, Nina Simone, Kate Nash, Ingrid Michaelson, M. Ward, She & Him, Aretha Franklin, Feist, The Smiths, Ayo, Etta James, Ben Gibbard, Jem, The New Pornographers, Susie Suh, Maroon 5- "Songs About Jane," Meiko, Ray Charles, Nirvana, Earth Wind & Fire, The Clash, Rachael Yamagata, Bonnie Raitt, Amy Winehouse, Johnny Cash, Regina Spektor,Patsy Cline, The Jayhawks, Otis Redding, Sara Bareilles, Ella Fitzgerald, Ben Folds, The Police, Bill Withers, Coldplay, Mississippi Mass Choir, NPR, etc.

Food: Meditarranean, Middle Eastern, Indian, Mexican, Chinese, Japanese... etc etc I'm a foodie and have a weakness for ethnic foods and cuisines.

The six things I could never do without

1. Books
2. Music
3. Musical Instruments
4. Macbook
5. Paper
6. Pens

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My thoughts vary by the time of day and my mood. Late at night I find myself thinking about the world and reality being merely a thought in my head... but again this is me after much sleep deprivation.

On a typical Friday night I am

Writing, Working, Practicing, Creating, Drinking, Sleeping

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am bipolar insomniac who loves her hourglass figure and has, at times, a blatant disregard for traditional grammar and punctuation,yep.

You should message me if

You, like me, enjoy insane amounts of hot tea with lemon, are looking for a friend, feeling chatty and/or are bipolar too.