I'm comfortable talking to anyone about anything, and I consider myself one of the few guys that can (and will) tell you what I'm thinking. More importantly I know how to actually listen. I'll admit to having a soft side. It makes me good at what I do. But that's just one aspect of my life. If you go for the frat boy/player/douchy type then I'm not the guy for you. I love trying to make people laugh and smile, and that is something I try to do in life and at work to make others happy. I try to find a balance between changing diapers one day and watching/playing sports with my guy friends the next. I genuinely believe in romance, but I know that the little things you do everyday in life are so much more meaningful. If something is important to you, I will make the effort to make it important to me. I try to treat others as I would want to be treated, and I don't expect to get something from a relationship that I wouldn't be willing to give as well. I know that without honesty, commitment, and compromise a relationship can't work, and I know that I bring those things to the table freely. When times get tough, I'm not the kind of guy that bails. I know who I am and what I want from life. I'm not perfect by any means (directionally challenged) a little goofy/quirky/clumsy sometimes (not all at once), but I know I've got a lot to offer.
As cliche as it sounds I'm looking to meet someone that likes to go out and have fun, but can have just as much fun staying in with a movie and pizza. Someone outgoing because I like to try new things and having adventures. I like to stay active and fit and I would like to meet someone who feels the same way (but I do love eating!). Life has a lot to offer and I'd like to have someone to share those experiences with. She has to be passionate about life, have a good heart, be laid back, and being funny is a huge plus. I'm looking for my best friend and not just a best girl friend. I know that I'm a good person, but I just want to be inspired and challenged to be a better person. That's what I'm really looking for.
If there's anything else you want to know, feel free to ask. Sorry about the ridiculously long profile. My name is Tobin by the way. Looking forward to hearing from you!
I have a dog AND a cat. If you don't like either we probably won't be a good fit.
I have quite a few tattoos (no sleeves or anything)- if that's a turn off then I understand
I own a motorcycle, but prefer to drive my car now. Must be a maturity thing. lol.
I've been single for over a year now. I'm ready to put myself out there, I'm hoping you are too.