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37 F Washington, DC

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:09pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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DC local. Recently freed from the office!
What I’m doing with my life
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Biking around DC every day because it makes me happy. Traveling as much as possible - always trying to plan the next trip. Lots of friends, family, fun times. I'm a DC local, so I've got a pretty broad network of people - this USED to be a really small town! Meeting new people. Catching up with old friends. Volunteering. Just got an awesome new job, and I'm super psyched.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping people find what they want, and what they didn't know they needed. I have been described as "amazingly helpful" on more than one occasion. Asking questions. Coming up with ideas. Ice skating. Connecting with people I've just met, or really pissing them off. Planning parties and group vacations. And, I'm kind of an online shoe/personal shopping maven. Srsly.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I really am 6'1. No lie.

As much as I might want them to, people tend not to forget me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot, mostly contemporary fiction and nonfiction. Just read "Dataclysm" by OKC's Christian Rudder, because, data! (It was OK. He's no Nate Silver) On my (fairly) recent must read list: Sex at Dawn, Born To Run, and The Omnivore's Dilemma. Another recent fave was Unbroken, which I totally recommend. The Power of Habit and The Signal and The Noise were pretty interesting. Also just read Flash Boys, which is pretty infuriating. Actually, I might read more nonfiction than fiction these days.

I like movies well enough - love documentaries -- but I'm huge fan of the HBO/showtime/AMC stuff. Golden age of serial TV, and all that. The second season of OITNB blew me away. John Oliver, obviously.

I love most ethnic food (especially Indian, Thai, Mediterranean), and try not to eat stuff that's been processed as a whole. Farmer's market junkie. Fresh and local, blah blah blah.

I might be kind of stuck in the 90's as far music goes. That's not wrong, I don't think. Ween is still my favorite band in life.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm awfully fond of friends and family, elaborate salads with home made salad dressing, coffee, beach vacations, peaches, my bicycle, and sandwiches. Also I must make my own hummus and tahini.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ideas. Where to go for my next vacation. Lately, where I want to live. Now that I have a remote job I have this fantasy of getting a Subaru station wagon and having "my year of air bnb." Why I still seem to love DC even though I don't particularly love the people, the business, or the food. How to really love what I do. My latest project. What's for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to motivate to go out. I'd give it a 50/50. I'd rather have people over for beers and dominoes on the porch with the housemates.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My brother is an anti-vaxxer, and it makes me crazy.
You should message me if
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You want to go skiing or ice skating. Or biking. You're not offended easily. You're not into lying to yourself and other people about who you are and what you're about. You're not a Republican. You're a dedicated member of Colbert Nation (okay, John Oliver). You want to geek out over Radiolab or This American Life.

Also, if you want to play bridge (and you know how to play already), we are looking for a fourth.

Finally...please don't be a jerk. If it's impolite, explicity suggestive, or just plain ignorant, don't write it!