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39 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Average build
Judaism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I like quirky, intelligent people. I am also occasionally guilty of a pedantic prose (I have toyed with the idea of having my best girlfriend write my profile). I value self-awareness in others. I like comedy (BBC Office is a perennial favorite). I am turned on by inspiration and accomplishment. I care a lot about the people in my life. I am drawn to kind women. I like listening- to people and to music, and spend inordinate amounts of time doing both. My parents listened to classical music and light rock all through my childhood, so I have an unfortunately eclectic taste in music which runs the gamut from obscure 20th century minimalism to cheesy 80’s. I like playing the piano. I lose myself in it. I am honest to a fault, and value honesty in others. I love road trips, hotels, and sunsets (a bit sappy, I know). I hate traffic.

Rereading this iteration of my profile, I realize that I come off sounding very serious. I am not. Promise. I am actually pretty funny and self-deprecating, though my humor is extremely dry and often is missed when I first meet people. So, please read "tongue in cheek".
What I’m doing with my life
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I was a professional opera singer for most of my 20s and had a chance to perform all over the US and in Europe. When I turned 30, I began to tire of the itinerant lifestyle and decided to engage my other passion. I spent the last 4 years living and going to school in SF. While I loved SF, I am thrilled to have just moved back to NYC for residency.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have aptitudes for math/sciencey logical pursuits. I am a good musician. I can play most things on the piano at sight. I am a highly skilled procrastinator. I'm a great listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm pretty tall. I have good green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Shadow of the Wind...sadly written in one of the few romance languages that I can't read. Confederacy of Dunces. East of Eden.
TV: Six Feet Under. Unbelievably well written. And dark. I like dark. The Office (either), Dexter, Homeland
Movie: Sideways. This changes regularly. Silence of the Lambs, Lost in Translation, American Beauty, Igby Goes Down
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
tasty food
my car
i'm quite particular about my pillows. i need one soft-ish on top of one slightly harder.
contact lenses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's next. What's for dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm sort of an open book. Ask me anything.
You should message me if
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You're smart. You can laugh at yourself. You care about things and people.
You love learning. You hate artifice. You play the piano.