So i was thinking, I've read on here a few times that peoples "most private" thing is they talk o themselves. some even said "at least i dont answer myself". well.. i answer myself. i was taught to speak when spoken to. so... yes! i answer myself. if i dont answer, who's gonna? and besides, i would just nbe rude to myself if i didnt answer...

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I was just thinking that I'd make this easy for all the AMAZING WOMEN out there trying to weed out the zeros from the hero's.....make no mistake. I AM GOD'S GIFT! Or simply put...THE TOTAL PACKAGE...

In the "first things people usually notice" section, please dont put "my smile, hair, or blah blah. what should be written is something like "MY SIZE! IM FRIGGIN HUGE!" i mean come on!
I'm so horrible at describing myself. So I hope my lack of ability to over sell myself doesn't discourage you of at least saying hi. Where do you even start with this? I am currently going through a divorce. I have 3 kids... Yes, I have a job. I'm just looking for someone that shares my opinions of what a relationship is and how it works. Kids aside, spending time with each other should be high on your list. Whether it be on the couch with a movie or going out having a good time. If you wanna know more, then ask!

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I've recently switched from hours at the gym to running and swimming. A huge plus would be someone that enjoys these things. Possibly become training partners first and see where things lead. A running partner to do races with and work our way to a half marathon...

P.s. what is with all the people with the word "sexy" in their name, when they clearly are not?

Ok... I have to wonder what's every ones deal. I'm by no means saying I'm god's gift. But I know im in a certain league. Which one, that's up to you to decide. However, why do the women that I feel would get along great with me, pay no mind. And the women that I don't think I would get along with are all over me? I think the percentages in the match area are a very vague guide line. I use the pix posted(obviously), and I read every thing you've written to base my opinion off of. Just cause cuspids computer says we answered some questions differently doesn't mean we won't get along. So many woman say what they are lookin for, and when someone reaches out to them that matches their criteria, they look away and ignore. Then they have gthe nerve to talk about the lack of luck they're having on here. I mean.... What do you really have to lose? A few hours worth of emails, texts, drinks? Do you think you'll live? So it doesn't work out....you shake hands and walk away. You either lost a couple hours with someone you'll never see again. Or you gained a good friend. But here's a thought.... What if it works? Here's a deeper thought.... What if the person you blew off for some menial reason, is the person that it would've worked with? That being said, let's face it. We are all adults here, at least in age, looks matter. Sorry for being so blunt. I mean personality and the person on the inside matter, obviously. But it takes the whole package to make someones heart race. And everyone is different and has their own ideas of what it takes to make that happen. To sit here and try and break down what I'm looking for in a woman is crazy. I could go on for hours. I want the obvious traits that any man wants. Humor, sarcasm, honesty, loyalty, integrity.....but at the end of the day... I want to be with someone that as soon as we leave each other we are already calling or texting, I want to give and get the phone calls throughout the day when we both really have nothing to say..not being able to wait any longer than needed to see each other... you know the normal sruff...

Just trying to figure out how to be a single dad and moving forward with my life!

Treating a woman like a woman, and letting her know that she's wanted and needed.

I have no idea! However, have been told my eyes are first. Then my sense of humor, it gets them Everytime.

Love all kids of music, I'm a movie freak, I could never just pick a few. Favorite foods???? I'll try just about anything once. But my poison is chocolate chip cookies. I read once in awhile, just whatever sparks my interest. I think two and a half men and big bang theory are the funniest things on tv.

My kids, my truck on the beach(this only counts as one), passion, being needed and wanted, and a woman that knows how to dress and has a huge high heel collection(also only counts as one)...wait... ONLY 6 right? Is that possible?

Will I ever find you!

Either with the kids or out somewhere

Don't wanna scare you off before you get to know me and give me a fair chance

Your bored, you wanna get to know a great guy, or you lost a bet. And if your tired of saying "what if", and "why not me". Did you ever think that because a self description didnt blow you away, that profile was ok...but damn! He's 1 year out of my perfect range, that you just might... Be blowing off the very same fairy tsle you wrote about un yoyr profile? And I have to say that it kills me how many people look at my profile and don't send a message, as well as people that can't reply to messages. At least have the common curtisy to say your not interested. I mean really, is everyone here that much better than everyone else? Both men and women all say how they all want pretty much the same things. Yet, why is it that neither will give the other person a chance? If we all say we are looking for the same things and I message you regarding this, how come you won't give me a chance? Just sayin....