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pensiveblueeyes

37 M Tucson, AZ

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:34pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Management
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I hate talking about myself. I can be very shy and am very quiet in person until I really get to know someone. So, outside of a few really awesome times, dating has pretty much always been a dreaded experience for me. Hence the online deal.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working. Working towards some personal and professional goals and fortunately I've started making increasing gains on them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Choosing my friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair. It's kind of amazing. I don't do a damn thing with it except maybe wash it or brush it a couple times a week, but other people seem really impressed. Oh, yeah, and I have pretty eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm kind of a food slut. There are a small handful of things that I never purchase myself, fewer still that I actively avoid, and maybe one or two (common) foods that I simply refuse to eat. Anchovies, basically. I'm a huge sci-fi and fantasy dork. Firefly/Serenity is awesome. I'm probably going to tell amazon.com to send me Blade Runner when I'm done updating this thing. I have an absurdly gigantic stack of books that I keep meaning to read but never seem to find the time. I don't collect comic books anymore but I still have a bunch of them. I'll add more to this later (next on my plate are The Count of Monte Cristo and Hero of a Thousand Faces).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There is nothing in this world I could do without. I know that this is just a silly little question where I'm supposed to list the things that I just can't get through the day without, but there really isn't anything, and I kind of pride myself on my adaptability and flexibility. I will say that any day where I leave my wallet and a pen at home is a day where I will be completely off-balance.

Update: upon further reflection, I have to say that, while it is possible that I can survive without my very closest friends, I'm not sure I would want to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. The longest-running lie I keep telling is whenever someone asks me what I'm thinking, I usually say "Nothing". That's pretty much never ever true, but what I am thinking about is either so absurd, obscure, or difficult to explain that I tell the easy lie. Common threads are meaningless conversations from a couple decades ago, why people tend to pick bottles of soda/juice/whatever from the same slot on the shelf, and why are so many people in Tucson, so outrageously bad at driving.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing or avoiding homework. Because I'm a lunatic I decided to go back to school full time while still working more than full time. Well, whatever doesn't kill me, right?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Even though it's been almost 4 years since he passed away, apparently there is still at least a 50-50 chance I'll end up shedding a tear or two on my brother's birthday.
You should message me if
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You want me to message you. I'm still stupidly shy, even on the internet.