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penumbra84

30 Chicago, IL Man

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Last Online
Today – 12:11am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Very often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an INTP, evidently. Used to be an INFP, but I guess I'm hardening as I age.

The long description linked above is actually a pretty good summary of how I see myself (theoretical, abstract, intellectual, tolerant)--despite the fact that the Myers-Briggs test is pure-cane pseudoscience. I disagree with parts of it, though. I think I experience emotions pretty intensely, even though people tend to think I have none, and I generally empathize with living things. The Lorax was a formative book in my childhood. Another, less preening way of saying all of that is: I'm kind of sensitive.

I care very much about social justice but do too little to promote it. Hot topics: public education, wealth inequity, mass transit.

I've started keeping a list of places I hope to visit: Machu Picchu, Tokyo, Istanbul, Berlin, Rome/Florence/Venice, Amsterdam, Dehli, Buenos Aires, Toronto, San Francisco, Reykjavik, Fingal's Cave, Flodden Field, Giza--it's a continuing list.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an English professor. I work on English Rensissance literature.

For a long time, the work was what I considered to be what I'm doing with my life. Now it's becoming a component in an overall picture, so I'm working on clarifying the others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading, thinking about aesthetic objects, thinking about ideas, philology and creative etymology, finding the humor in most situations.

I'm pretty bad at making small talk, meeting new people in real life, and remembering names (faces, though, I remember very well).
The first things people usually notice about me
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My alacrity and effulgence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Lolita, To the Lighthouse, Paradise Lost, Astrophil and Stella, Utopia, Dracula, Alice's Adventures in Wonderland and Through the Looking-Glass, Wolf Hall, Flannery O'Connor stories, Elizabeth Bishop's poetry, Barthes, Derrida, Foucault, Judith Butler

Movies: Mean Girls, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Barry Lyndon, Star Wars, Persona, Brokeback Mountain, Weekend, Aguirre, the Wrath of God, Koyaanisqatsi, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Paris Is Burning, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Cave of Forgotten Dreams

Music: Ludwig van Beethoven, Igor Stravinsky, Jean Sibelius, Franz Joseph Haydn, Steve Reich, Aimee Mann, The New Pornographers, Neutral Milk Hotel, Radiohead, Joanna Newsom, Rufus Wainwright, Björk, György Ligeti, early Philip Glass, Antonín Dvořák, Andrew Bird, Neko Case, Béla Bartók, Franz Schubert, Samuel Barber, Vampire Weekend, The National, Pérotin, Fleetwood Mac, Michael Jackson, Sacred Harp, Bulgarian State Vocal Choir, Deep Listening (Pauline Oliveros etc,)

TV: The Simpsons, The Outs, Battlestar Galactica, Planet Earth, Star Trek: The Next Generation, Torchwood (Children of Earth especially), Absolutely Fabulous, (most of) Twin Peaks, The IT Crowd, Arrested Development, What's My Line?

Stand-up: Louis C.K., Tig Notaro, Mike Birbiglia, James Adomian

Food: Chipotle, Ethiopian, Indian, and (at less exalted moments) Arby's.

Buildings: Kimball Art Museum (Kahn), Church of Light (Ando), Aqua (Gang), Baker Dormitory (Aalto), Deutsche Post Tower (Jahn), Crown Center (SOM), Villa Savoye (Le Corbusier--yeah, yeah), Crown Hall (Mies), National Gallery East Building (Pei). Eventually I'll visit them all.

Artists: Michelangelo, Rembrandt, Rogier van der Weyden, Jan van Eyck, Hans Memling, Hans Holbein, Barbara Kruger, Andy Warhol, Marcel Duchamp, Alberto Giacometti, Sigmar Polke, Sol Lewitt, Eva Hesse, Robert Smithson, Adrian Piper, Jeff Koons, Cindy Sherman, Jenny Holzer, Gerhard Richter, Lorna Simpson, Robert Mapplethorpe, George Platt Lynes, Carolee Schneemann, Felix Gonzalez-Torres.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This is a genuine eye-roller, but I collect moments the way people collect coins or shells. Here are six (but there are more):

1. A beach in Washington with tide-pools flushed purple and green, tiny inexplicable bowls of life; 12 years old.

2. My first time seeing a Van Gogh at the Getty; 14 years old.

3. Finals night DCI 2004; my group (the The Bluecoats) achieved the highest score we ever had. Leaving the stadium, we were showered with flowers, and I felt like a Roman Gladiator; 19 years old.

4. Seeing the Aurora Borealis as far south as Illinois while I was in college, 2005; 20 years old.

5. Spending a month reading the handwriting of three women who had been dead for 500 years and straining to hear their whispers across the centuries, 2010; 26 years old.

6. Seeing Einstein on the Beach in London, 2012; 28 years old.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Language, poetics, the history of reading, deconstruction, gender and sexuality. Recently, too, my life goals.

More than I want to admit: plot holes in science fiction television.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing laundry, apparently.
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