One of the challenges of meeting people in this environment is that so many people have the potential of being partners in crime, but the reality is that few will ultimately be interested in engaging on the meaningful personal level that is necessary to sustain a nurturing relationship. I do find this challenging because in spite of all the clues the questions et al give, it comes down to whether or not there's a fit, and whether or not there is a mutual interest in doing the work to build and sustain a relationship.
I've met some wonderful men here whose paths crossed mine but aren't going in the same direction. And since we are each on our own life paths, I don't pretend to think that any of us will fit so perfectly together that it can happen without effort and commitment. That being said, the journey of exploration can be fun, enlightening and energizing, and I'm up for that if you are.