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30 F Sydney, Australia

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:03pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Big believer in radical honesty. The bad news is I will tell you if you have parsley in your teeth. The good news is I am a fairly nice person so most of the time my radical honesty is "my, you are looking fabulous today!"

Poly, currently living with my gorgeous partner. I'm going to get the list of "please no's" out of the way now -

Please no "poly until serious", "don't ask don't tell" or "poly means I can cheat on my significant other, yes?".

Please no hetero-sexism, trans phobia or queer phobia.

Please no people who think privilege and rape culture are just things that feminists made up because they hate men.

It's not all bad, I have some "yes pleases" too -

Like vegan, vegetarian and sugar free food? Yes please!

Like the outdoors and camping? Yes please!

Like festivals? Yes yes yes! Hooray festivals!
What I’m doing with my life
Currently working as a psychologist and just finished setting up my own practice which has kept me busy.

Going camping/to festivals/seeing friends when I can.

Have a life goal of setting up a commune of some sort that I am slowly inching my way towards.

Into meditation, out of practice at the moment but meditate at least a couple of times a week.

Trying super hard to be a kind person, because it makes me happy.
I’m really good at
I would say organising things, but only very specific things like my work or time management.

I asked my partner and the (family friendly skill that I was willing to post on ok cupid) was "being non judgemental" - apparently this is a skill, and I possess it. Hooray!

Gardening - I have my own aquaponics system and tiny little herb garden. To be fair, so far I have only actually harvested one chilli.
The first things people usually notice about me
My winning smile and my ability to give a running commentary on everything I am thinking
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Game of Thrones, Tipping the Velvet, The Maxx, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, Run Lola Run, Rage in Placid Lake, Psycho Beach Party. The list is endless!

1984, The Dark Tower Series, Quiet, Freakanomics, The Black Swan.

Oh, food! I made banana and zucchini bread the other day. I declared it to be delicious.
The six things I could never do without
My toothbrush, chicknuts, my food processor, my fluffy dressing gown, my wonderful sneakers from vegas... you know I can't actually think of a 6th thing. I think if I had all of those things in a bag and it was warm day, I would be happy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Deep and meaningful things like the state of the world and feminist stuff, interspersed with nonsensical junk my mind thinks is really important, like every single Simpsons quote ever.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home with partner/friends, at a party, maybe at a burlesque show?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a human being just like everybody else.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You are a nice person and you might be going to festivals or be in newtown and want to hang out.

You're poly/kinky/awesome.