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31 Sydney, Australia Gender Nonconforming, Genderqueer

Gender Nonconforming, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25-45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Atheism and laughing about it
Space camp
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Poly, currently in a long distance relationship with my gorgeous partner. I'm going to get the list of "please no's" out of the way now. Think of them like the "do not attempt to stop chainsaw with hands or genitals" warning label - obvious, but sadly still necessary.

Please no "poly until serious", "don't ask don't tell" or "poly means I can cheat on my significant other, yes?".

Please no racism, misogyny, hetero-sexism, trans phobia or queer phobia.

Please no people who think privilege and rape culture are just things that feminists made up because they hate men.

Now that we have that out of the way...

Still here? Like vegan, vegetarian and sugar free food? Like the outdoors and camping? Like festivals? These are lovely things, that people might eat/do. Perhaps we should eat/do one of these things together.

P.S Preferred pronouns are she/her. You can learn more about pronouns here -
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just finished setting up my own business which has kept me busy.

Going camping/to festivals/seeing friends when I can.

Into meditation, out of practice at the moment but meditate at least a couple of times a week.

Trying super hard to be a kind person, because it makes me happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I would say organising things, but only very specific things like my work or time management.

I asked my partner and the (family friendly skill that I was willing to post on ok cupid) was "being non judgemental" - apparently this is a skill, and I possess it. Hooray!

Gardening - I have my own aquaponics system and tiny little herb garden. To be fair, so far I have only actually harvested one chilli.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very short. Also my teeth are ridiculously straight.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Game of Thrones, Tipping the Velvet, The Maxx, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, Run Lola Run, Rage in Placid Lake, Psycho Beach Party. The list is endless!

1984, The Dark Tower Series, Quiet, Freakanomics, The Black Swan.

Oh, food! I made banana and zucchini bread the other day. I declared it to be delicious.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My toothbrush, chicknuts, my food processor, my fluffy dressing gown, my wonderful sneakers from vegas... you know I can't actually think of a 6th thing. I think if I had all of those things in a bag and it was warm day, I would be happy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Feminism and queer theory. I am just so far down the queer feminist rabbit hole I am never finding my way out. It's pretty great.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home with partner/friends, at a party, maybe at a burlesque show?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a human being just like everybody else.
You should message me if
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You are a nice person and you might be going to festivals, camping, up for a meal or hang outs somewhere fun