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48 Boston, MA Man


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  • Ages 18–100
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always nice to meet new people — anywhere, local or otherwise.
What I’m doing with my life
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Creative arts and teaching. Trying to be aspiring, imaginative, inspiring and productive, while hoping it makes for a better world.
I’m really good at
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The first things people usually notice about me
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no, really. please.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Though it can be really dandy, whether someone likes a film or song or something else that I like isn't crucial to me. I am curious what they like. Also, I think I surprise people with how detached I can be from certain parts of, even moreso from certain people in, popular culture (ex., today didn't know the name of that Desperate Housewives actress who married the basketball player, whose name I'm also struggling with). But in the recent past I've listened to / gone to see / been introduced to / enjoyed Silver Lining Playbook, Lincoln, The Sessions, Beasts Of The Southern Wild, Bright Star, Django Uc, Prometheus, Hawk by Nick Hornby, Thelonious Monk / The Life and Times of an American Original by Robin D.G. Kelly, the Jim Hodges ICA exhibit, the Llewyn Davis soundtrack, Phoenix, a few of Carl Martin's early blues guitar recordings, Andrew Jackson Jihad, Lucy Wainwright Roche, and The Ashmont Grill and 224 Boston St. I love radio. This is now way outdated.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A while back I moved from a 3-bedroom with full basement and full attic into a temporary place that has neither. 2 U-Haul truck trips to Goodwill, several Craigslist sales, a driveway full of items marked 'free', and a big pile of curbside trash later, I discovered I could do without a whole lot. Utterly liberating. I want to do it again. I suppose a toothbrush.
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amazing how so many people don't want to answer this question. oh well.
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Your message is well-intentioned. Your sense of humor leans dry, but can veer wild and absurd. You're optimistic. You sing / play / write / design / direct / paint / sculpt / animate / broadcast / sew or tailor / are otherwise creative, but don't overdo the ever-popular tortured artist vibe (I navigate okc for possible collaborators / projects) .. You're decidedly open-minded, non-judgmental and sincerely interested and unafraid to get to know people who are different from you. You have more questions than answers. You don't think the way to engage someone with a different political viewpoint is to try to condescend to, insult, or infantilize (I'm speaking generally — not hinting that I have some strange affiliation). You think the world is completely haywire but find the majority of this hilarious, and have stories about it. You have a lot of patience, compassion, and empathy. You like stuff. 

If you write I'll respond, but apologize in advance that I can sometimes be a little slow to respond. I'm not here a lot, but will make an earnest effort to correspond. I prefer e-mail, and won't ever IM you without prior e-mail correspondence.

Also, it may appear I'm here when I'm not. I can forget to sign off, or my phone seems to keep me logged on even when I sign off. If you IM me and I don't respond, it's probably the same — either presently not at my computer or forgot to sign off or my IM is turned off or .. I am not a rude boy. If I do see your IM but can't talk at that moment, I will respond to let you know. See? Not rude!

Please though.. Absolutely no 101-year-olds. OKCupid understands this, and I can't imagine you wouldn't too.

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