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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–100
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
May 18
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
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My self-summary
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It's always great to meet new people. Anywhere, local or other.
What I’m doing with my life
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Creative arts and teaching. Trying to be aspiring, imaginative, inspiring, productive, and help others be, while hoping it makes for a better world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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no, really. please.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Though it can be just dandy, whether someone likes a film or song or something else I like isn't crucial. I am curious what they like. I think I surprise people with how disconnected I can sometimes be from certain parts of, even moreso from certain people in, current popular culture. Off the top of my head, maybe Stanley Kubrick, Howard Armstrong, and pumpkin pie, but I have very few unequivocal favorites or 'bests.' A friend and I once decided to try and pick the 'best' pop music melody of the 20th century. After months we finally chose one, but it was agonizing. Just liking stuff is plenty enough for me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A while back I moved from a 3-bedroom with full basement and full attic into a temporary place that has neither. 2 U-Haul truck trips to Goodwill, several Craigslist sales, a driveway full of items marked 'free', and a big pile of curbside trash later, I discovered I could do without a whole lot. Utterly liberating. I want to do it again. I suppose a toothbrush.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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amazing to me how so many people don't want to answer this question. oh well.
You should message me if
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Your message is well-intentioned .. Your sense of humor banks toward dry, but can veer wild and absurd .. You're optimistic .. You sing / play / write / design / direct / paint / sculpt / animate / broadcast / sew or tailor / are otherwise creative, but don't overdo the ever-popular tortured artist vibe (I navigate okc for possible collaborators / projects) .. You teach .. You're open-minded, non-judgmental and like meeting people who are different from you .. You have more questions than answers .. You don't think the way to engage someone with a different political viewpoint is to try to condescend to, insult, or infantilize (I'm speaking generally — not hinting that I have some strange affiliation) .. You think the world is haywire but find much of it hilarious, and have stories about it .. You have a lot of patience, compassion, and empathy .. You like stuff, Lisa.

If you write I'll respond, but apologize in advance that I can sometimes be slow. I'm not here a lot, but will make an effort to correspond. I prefer e-mail, and won't ever IM you without prior e-mail correspondence.

Also, it may appear I'm here when I'm not. I can forget to sign off, or my phone seems to keep me logged on even when I sign off. If you IM me and I don't respond, it's probably the same — either presently not at my computer or forgot to sign off or my IM is turned off or .. I am not a rude boy. If I do see your IM but can't talk at that moment, I will respond to let you know. See? Not rude!

Please though.. Absolutely no 101-year-olds. OKCupid understands this, and I can't imagine you wouldn't too.