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My self-summary
always nice to meet new people — anywhere, local or otherwise.
What I’m doing with my life
Creative arts and teaching. Trying to be aspiring, imaginative, inspiring and productive, while hoping it makes for a better world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This list hasn't gotten a bit out of date. Big deal..
Though it's great, whether someone likes a film or song or something else that I like isn't huge to me. I am curious what they like. Also, I think I surprise people with how detached I can be from certain parts of, even moreso from certain people in, popular culture. Frankly I need to get out more. But recently I've listened to / gone to see / been introduced to / enjoyed Silver Lining Playbook, Lincoln, The Sessions, Beasts Of The Southern Wild, Bright Star, Django Uc, Prometheus, Hawk by Nick Hornby, Barry McGee's ICA exhibit, the Llewyn Davis soundtrack, Phoenix, a few of Carl Martin's early blues guitar recordings, Andrew Jackson Jihad, Lucy Wainwright Roche, and The Ashmont Grill and 224 Boston St. I love radio.
The six things I could never do without
A while back I moved from a 3-bedroom with full basement and full attic into a temporary place that has neither. 2 U-Haul truck trips to Goodwill, several Craigslist sales, a driveway full of items marked 'free', and a big pile of curbside trash later, I discovered I could do without a whole lot. Utterly liberating. I want to do it again. I suppose a toothbrush.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
strange how so many people don't want to answer this question. oh well.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–100
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Your message is well-intentioned. You're optimistic. You sing / play / write / design / direct / paint / sculpt / animate / broadcast / sew or tailor / are otherwise creative, but don't emit a lot of that ever-popular tortured artist vibe. You might want to swap one of the above services for mine (I sometimes navigate okc for possible collaborators / projects) .. You're decidedly open-minded, non-judgmental and interested in knowing people who are different from you. You have more questions than answers. You don't think the way to engage someone with a different political viewpoint is to try to condescend to, insult, or infantilize them (I'm just speaking generally — most political discourse has become dysfunctional, about ego, and just hard to listen to nowadays). You think the world is completely haywire, but find the majority of this hilarious, and have the stories to back it up. You have a lot of patience and empathy. You like stuff. 

If you write I'll respond, but apologize in advance that, especially lately, I can sometimes be slow to respond. I'm not here a lot, but will make an earnest effort to correspond. I prefer e-mail, and won't ever IM you without prior e-mail correspondence.

Also, it may appear I'm here when I'm not. I can forget to sign off, or my phone seems to keep me logged on even when I sign off. If you IM me and I don't respond, it's probably the same — either presently not at my computer or forgot to sign off or my IM is turned off or .. I am not a rude boy. If I do see your IM but can't talk at that moment, I will respond to let you know. See? Not rude.

Please though.. Absolutely no 101-year-olds. OKCupid understands this, and I can't imagine you wouldn't too.