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45 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:58am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Strictly vegetarian
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid
English, French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a nurse, a mom, a big sister (a.k.a. a little bit of a hard-ass), a good friend, a great girlfriend, and a bleeding heart, liberal feminist. This is killing it for me right now:

I recently asked some friends what they would say about me. These are some of those things:
- You're a great friend. With impeccable grammar. And you knit awesome scarves!
- you are no bullshit, smart, brave, pretty, fun!!!
- you have a terrific sense of style. and a huge, caring heart. and a cutthroat humor.
- You're one hell of a classy broad.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm raising an awesome kid (he's with me half the time). Working as a nurse. Taking advantage of the riches of SF. Enjoying (and/or missing) my family and friends. Improving myself in different ways. Looking for my last first date.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things! ie. being responsible/not flaky/honest, smelling good, sewing and knitting. Before becoming a nurse, I was a massage therapist, so there's that. I can start an IV. I will probably check out your veins, but I don't carry supplies with me so don't worry.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Blue eyes, freckles and the inappropriate comment I just made. Maybe my boobs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Recent reads I've enjoyed: Just Kids by Patti Smith, Not That Kind of Girl by Lena Dunham, Role Models by John Waters, Being Mortal by Atul Gawande, Manhood for Amateurs by Michael Chabon. Finally read The Secret History and now I'm on to Kim Gordon's book (update - It was lame, I couldn't even finish it).
I will read *anything* by Michael Chabon and Atul Gawande.

I got sucked in to American Horror Story - so creepy! I also like Girls, Looking (a little soft, gay porn? yes please!), Party Down, Arrested Development, Pushing Daisies, Project Runway, Soap (yes the old one). I really expected Last Man on Earth to be pretty dumb, but it's damn funny.

Movies: Bridesmaids, We're The Millers, This Is The End, Chef, Skeleton Twins, Obvious Child, It's Complicated... Lots more.

Music: Latest obsessions are Pomplamoose and TV on the Radio. I LOVE of Montreal, and there is also... Janelle Monae, Ratatat, Dengue Fever, Elliott Smith, Dolly Parton, Neutral Milk Hotel, Neko Case, Stereolab, Pixies, Aimee Mann, and that Ethiopiques series is amazing.

Food: Vegetarian, organic, local; that kind of thing. Also, rosemary salt has changed my life.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son. My family. Solid Friends. Real food, prepared well. Comfortable shoes. Affection and love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the balance between waste and cleanliness, becoming a better parent and person, getting healthier, when I will find the perfect combination of love/sex/fun in someone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often I'm at home with my kid, but I might also be at a party, or out to dinner, or at some kind of only-in-SF event. I like the Porchlight storytelling series, but that's usually on a Monday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I won the award for bossiest nurse at my work holiday party.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are relationship-oriented, responsible, fun, smart, active in some way, you have a high sex drive and are able to communicate honestly and directly. That's a pretty good combination I think. I should say that I like a lot of attention, and I'm looking for some long term, good stuff with the right person, so you'll be on the same page ideally.

Alternately, please write me if you've found a spelling or grammar mistake anywhere in my profile - I would be mortified and need to fix it immediately.