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Last online
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Asian, Other
5' 8" (1.73m)
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Special Diet
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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singly weird West coast (represent, gnome saiyan) Canadian studying Creative Writing and Publishing at the University of Wales in Lampeter. What a place to set your roots down. Still miss Vancouver sometimes but life is good.
Amateur mycologist.
Compulsive editor.
Long distance runner.
Feckless protégée--I'm grateful for what I have, I swear.
Ashtanga yogi.
Un(der)exposed metamodern rapper. This may edify:
or this:
or this, just for good measure:
At peace.
Always pushing envelopes, never licking stamps.

I used to live for intense, life-affirming, ideologically charged conversations that blazed on to dawn but lately I find myself thinking that silence is a beautiful thing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
on the record: Getting a BA but not for the sake of it. I never bothered to learn a single citation style and I never will...bitches.


Black pen | Red pen (The dichotomy and codependence of writing and editing)

Art. (shudder)



Promoting literacy.

Learning Norsk.

Staving off self-sabotage (We'll be fast friends if you also self-sabotage. It's a carryover from my self-loathing past that I still struggle with occasionally)


Promoting this open course on global human rights. It's free and only 3 weeks:

Metamodern diatribe aka my "rap"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm close to maxing out on the Independence trait. Followed by Kinky and Indie.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Advantageous, Elephant Song, Beauty is Embarrassing, Upstream Colour, Under The Skin, Her, Being John Malkovich, Ex Machina, Waking Life, Memento, Grey Gardens, Beyond the Black Rainbow, Woman in the Dunes, Psycho, The Act of Killing, Mishima: A Life in Four Chapters, Far Out Isn't Far Enough, Realms of the Unreal, Encounters at the End of the World, Samsara, Desert Runners, Pan's Labyrinth, Before Sunset series

Clyfford Still
Wang Yani
Rose Miller
Hieronymous Bosch
Otto Dix
Paula Mendelsohn Becker
Paul Klee

Alice Munro
Michael Ondaatje
Christian Bök
(Mad love for Canadian authors.)
Robert F. Scott
Kazuo Ishiguro
Slavoj Žižek
Swann's Way (Proust)
Walden (Thoreau)
Kafka on the Shore (Murakami)
The Heart is a Lonely Hunter (Carson McCullers)
The Wind's Twelve Quarters (Ursula Le Guin)
Essays in Idleness (Yoshida Kenko)
Henderson the Rain King (Saul Bellow)
Bluebeard (Vonnegut)
The Age of Reason (Sartre)
Letters to a Young Poet (Rilke)
Nine Stories (Salinger)
Buddhist books such as Good Citizens, Awakening the Sleeping Buddha, A History of Modern Buddhism

Black Mirror, AdventureTime, Kids in the Hall, The Bob and David Show, Peep Show, Steins; Gate
- I'm just getting into Anime. Death Note was the portal +

I'm digging Deafheaven's new album and Boris right now. Some of my mainstays are Russian Circles, Mac Demarco, Helen Money, Phillip Glass, Brian Eno, Robert Fripp, PJ Harvey, The Living Hour, Braids, Solstafir, Black Velvet Stereo, Swans, Animal Collective and Neurosis. I'd love to have a music-sharing sesh with you! I like music you can knife your nemesis to, but from time to time I can get down with Neutral Milk Hotel and the like. But no Bon Iver. Absolutely no Bon Iver.

Pescatarian transitioning to vegetarian. Mushrooms, pears, mashed potatoes, vegetarian curry, basmati rice, Chinese water spinach, all kinds of stir fry, Indian food, Japanese food, Chinese food, French food (when it's veggie), Mediterranean food, tapas, a well-baked loaf of bread, coffee, ginger, mint, paprika. Simple things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
6 valerians because my dad spells my name wrong
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time trying not to think because I frequently suffer when I do . Yoga has helped immensely. I still think, but only of real things, people, and how I can manifest a better reality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
defenestrating convention
You should message me if
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you're into any of these pursuits --

writing, publishing, Brutalism, Metamodernism, robotics, neuroscience, massage, architecture, Abstract Expressionism, cats, sloths, marine life, anarchism, transhumanism, design, urban planning, communal living, minimalism, non-traditional education, philosophy, music, Yoga, Ayurveda, science, improv, gardening, veganism, subcultural analysis, tea, meditation, drawing, traveling, or botany.

or if you think we could enjoy nature and silence together.

"Be kind and honest, and harmful poisons will turn sweet inside you."