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21 Lampeter, UK Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19–41
  • Near me
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My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:07am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I had an inspired sleep in a secondhand fleece turtleneck gifted in the art of warming, so I've come back here to edit my profile.

For your quick info - I'm from Canada. Going to be in Wales in Sept 2015 for school. I'm not necessarily looking for dating. Just people I get along with.

First of all disregard my photos. Have you seen them already? I really don't think they represent me. The most accurate image of me is hunched over reading on the bus with a runny nose.

In Walden, Thoreau makes a valid point about the homes of people. He says any decorative effect that a home shows on the outside is only picturesque and dear (as a homely cottage in the woods) if it is natural extension of the inhabitants' livelihoods and pursuits. I think this is a good way to look at the outward appearance of people too. This isn't to say I'll judge you for having a highly stylized look--as long as your life outside of self-beautification reflects the same level of detail, depth, and commitment, I'm all for it. The only reason I "dress up" is to go running on a cold day.

That being said, I am training to become a Personal Trainer and will probably be working in one of the most most superficial industries in existence, but I believe I can bring some valuable difference to the gym. My interest in helping others get fit was an offshoot of my own interest in the healing powers of running. By running alone, I've managed to more or less achieve the feeling of self-efficacy, not just in fitness but in life. As of this moment, it's the closest I've come to total surrender, but I understand I'm not supposed to be striving for it...

I paint, and I struggle with it. I'm beginning to feel like my ideas are a bit "muddied" by too much rumination and not enough action. If you're a painter too, talk to me!

My long-term, "real" goal is to find a foothold in academia with artistic pursuits on the side.

I love literature. I love film. I love music. I love anthropology. I love philosophy--just got myself a Heidegger on Poetry and a Ziziek on Philosophy in transit for my train rides this winter, (how fitting).

Feel free to ask me anything. Show me your favourite thinkers, musicians, artists and let us delve into their Mysteries...
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now? Browsing Etsy for art ideas ^^

Today? Shopping for a good cute mini alarm clock, studying for my BCRPA, probably replaying simian.interface (a bite-sized and wonderfully complex yet accessible little game--try it).

This week? Going to Paris and Lyon!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Does it matter? A Buddhist teaching says a perfect human is one who makes the best of the worst situation, so I'll strive toward that.

But to humour this question, I guess...
critical thinking
absurd humour
the ability to become hopelessy absorbed in minutiae
an explorer's heart
long distance running
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(just listing most recent favs) Upstream Colour, Under The Skin, Being John Malkovich, Waking Life, Memento, Grey Gardens, Beyond the Black Rainbow, Woman in the Dunes, Psycho, The Act of Killing, Mishima: A Life in Four Chapters, The Human Scale, Far Out Isn't Far Enough, Realms of the Unreal, Encounters at the End of the World, Samsara, Desert Runners, Pan's Labyrinth, Before Sunset series

Alice Munro
Robert F. Scott (yes, the Antarctic explorer -- he writes such delectable prose)
Kazuo Ishiguro
Swann's Way (Proust)
Walden (Thoreau)
Kafka on the Shore (Murakami)
The Heart is a Lonely Hunter (Carson McCullers)
The Wind's Twelve Quarters (Ursula Le Guin)
Essays in Idleness (Yoshida Kenko)
Henderson the Rain King (Saul Bellow)
Bluebeard (Vonnegut)
The Age of Reason (Sartre)
Letters to a Young Poet (Rilke)
Nine Stories (Salinger)
Buddhist books such as Good Citizens, Awakening the Sleeping Buddha, A History of Modern Buddhism

Black Mirror, AdventureTime, Kids in the Hall, The Bob and David Show (I watch many and varied TV shows but they don't really speak to me on a level higher than entertainment. However, I have been meaning to watch Twin Peaks)

(recent favs) Solstafir (unforgettable experience in concert- the performance and charisma are outstanding), Nomeansno, Slint, David Maxim Micic, Swans, Olafur Arnalds, Mike Oldfield, Laura Nyro, Arvo Part, Philip Glass, Brian Eno, David Byrne, The Ramones.

Indian cuisine is my favourite
Vegetables, all colours, all kinds
Afghan cuisine
A good coffee and scone - delights of heaven
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about what I read, watch, listen to, admire...a LOT.

For a while I couldn't stop thinking of getting my hands on this book:

then it was this one:

Then it was Joshua Oppenheimer's (the director of The Act of Killing) other's films - which I couldn't find online anywhere!

I think about social justice: multiculturalism, diversity of beauty and how our society represses that, ingenuity and invention, how little freedom Canadians actually have, how I should think, how much I should tolerate...the stuff of TEDtalks, basically, though I can only stand to watch a few of those. This one (tied with Hans Rosling on stats) is my fav:
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting a drink with a friend
Seeing a performance
At the gym, too shy to practice my marketing skills
You should message me if
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You treat people as equals. You have something pressing to tell me, ask me, debate me on. Follow your instincts! I'm a very fair and friendly and passionate person.