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30 Cottage Grove, OR Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:49am
Asian, Black, Native American, White, Other
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Full figured
Special Diet
Other and it’s important
Dropped out of Two-year college
Has kid(s) and wants more
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I identify as GenderqueerPansexual and Polyamorous. If you're not ok with any of the above, we likely won't make it past friendship

I am a feminist who wants to see equality between the genders. I am not often attracted to heterosexual people, though it does happen from time to time. I am body positive and learning to love my body the way it is, though I would like to change my body, not to look better, but to feel better physically and be able to do more of the things I am interested in. I am also sex positive I believe that prostitution should be legal, that slut isn't an insult, but rather an identity, and that women and men are welcome and encouraged to have as much sex as they would like, as long as they are doing so safely and with consent.

This is a profile for both myself and my partner. He is a bisexual androgynous male with long blond hair, and beautiful blue eyes. We are currently looking for someone to add to our relationship, someone we can click with and share both physical and emotional affection with. If you are that person, feel free to hit us up. Feel free to ask questions, and we're nearly always open to meeting new people, even if said people end up only interested in friendship.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am married to the love of my life and we are in a polyamorous relationship. For us, this means that my spouse and I are willing to accept people into our relationship. We are both pansexual don't know what that means? Ask!

We are both students, parents, and I am a business owner (I'm a photographer, if you couldn't tell from the photo).
I’m really good at
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Loving others, being optimistic, photography, silliness, things, being vague.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, smile, hair (it's usually some form of bright crayola color...), or pup.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Orphan's Tales: In the Night Garden by Catherynne M. Valente
The Orphan's Tales: In the Cities of Coin and Spice by Catherynne M. Valente
Palimpsest by Catherynne M. Valente
The Fifth Sacred Thing by Starhawk




The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Spirituality and love, in many different forms.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with my honey.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have been raped many times, but with the right person, consensual non-consent is still a massive turn on.
You should message me if
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You are interested in me as a friend, lover, date, or sexual partner, and are willing to not only be joined in all these by my partner, but to show the same affection to him as you would to me.