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My self-summary
What is the meaning behind my username Perfectplayboy? Let me explain, it's so sad how society takes words and twist them into something negative. A true playboy is not one who simply enjoys the pleasures of a woman but one who enjoys the pleasures life has to offer and shares those experiences with others. Those pleasures include enjoying a new book a movie premier introducing your friends loved ones or family members to someone or something they desire / admire maybe a famous author, actor, businessman, travel, fine dining, music, art or even a relationship with God. This is the meaning behind my user name Perfectplayboy I do it God's way and not by the world's standards. I enjoy all life has to offer and I share those experiences with friends, family and the right woman.

My hobbies are reading attending charity events collecting autograph books meeting and talking to famous people attending movie premiers / foreign films events, poerty slams, music concert, investing, comedy clubs, fine dining, collecting art, horseback riding, hot air ballooning, traveling and sporting events basically anything that is fun and exciting. Many of my goals I have achieved; I started a non-profit organization at the age 19 working with inner city youth and providing investment funds to kids funded by many of the areas foundations and philanthropist throughtout the country. I served as a community organizer and ran for public office. I currently work for a ad agency in an administrative role. My goals are to create wealth and use it to help the poor, churches, sickly and children by investing. When it comes to dating I focus on making it a special night out which remains in her mind forever! My philosophy when it comes to dating is "If you treat a woman to the best good things always come back to you you only get back what you give this is the law of giving". Yes, ladies good brothers do exist. My dates are fun creative and special trust me on that! Some of my Ok Cupid dates have been out of town trips to wherever the adventure takes us, hopefully the right woman can come along on the next adventure.
What I’m doing with my life
In the process of buying a new home and planning my 2015 winter vacation to Cuba. Currently reading Mo 'ne Davis Remember My Name ,a great story about a young black female little league baseball player. Going out experiencing DC culture / night life and dating. Taking trips to various estates of famous American businessman / philanthropist, I love to see how the wealthy lived.
I’m really good at
If you really wanted to know send a message and find out!
The first things people usually notice about me
My babyface, youthfulness, glowing skin, height and brown eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Boondocks by Aaron McGruder, Undisputed Truth by Mike Tyson, Schindler's Ark by Thomas Keneally (AKA Schindler's List), The Snowball Warren Buffett & The Business of Life by Alice Schroeder,Reminiscences of a Stock Operator by Edwin Lefèvre, My Beloved World by Sonya Sotomayor, 11 Rings by Phil Jackson, The Law of Divine Compensation On Work, Money & Miracles by Marianne Williamson, This Is How You Loose Her by Junot Diaz, Interventions: A Life in War & Peace by Kofi Annan, The Gospel of Wealth by Andrew Carangie, You Need a Schoolhouse: Booker T. Washington, Julius Rosenwald, and the Building of Schools for the Segregated South By Stephanie Deutsch, Value Line Investment Survey, Washingtonian Magazine, Up From Slavery by Booker T Washington, A Testament of Hope: The Essential Writings and Speeches of Martin Luther King, Jr by MLK, Makes Me Wanna Hollar by Nathan McCall, The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene, The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, Laws of Success by Napolean Hill, Rather Outspoken by Dan Rather.

Movies: Goodbye Uncle Tom, The Inevitable Defeat of Mister & Pete, Don Jon, Captain Phillips, Red 2, Fruitvale Station, End of Watch, World War Z, What Maisie Knew, Temptation, Now You See Me, Good Deeds, Fast & Furious 6, Disconnect, Shooters, The Family That Preys, The Babysitter, Skin, Django Unchained, The Pianist, Parental Guidance, Snow On Tha Bluff, Flight, Loopers, Take Me Out Tonight, Moneyball, Trouble With The Cruve, The Words, Sin Nombre, Undefeated, King of Devil's Island, Half Nelson, Elite Squad: The Enemy Within, Marley (Bob Marley Documentary), Safe, Even the Rain, Saving Private Ryan, IP Man, IP Man 2, 13 Warriors, The Good The Bad And The Ugly, The Good The Bad And The Weird, Curse of the Golden Flower, Gran Torino, In The Land of Blood And Honey, 50 /50, Mesrine, Warrior, Miracle At St Anna, Inglorious Bastards, All Things Good, Drive, The Decendants, Inception, Housemaid, Girl With The Dragon Tattoo Series, Warloards With Jet Li, The Prophet, Terribly Happy, Win Win, Malcom X, Devil In A Blue Dress and Black Swan .

Shows: Kennedy Center, Arlington Draft House, Baltimore Laugh Factory, Howard Theater, DC Improv, Riot Act, State Theater, Blues Alley, Strathmore & Birchmere, Carter Baron.

Music: The Suffers, Raury, Kiesza, Sam Smith, Betty Who, Lolawolf, Party Next Door, Luke James, Rebecca Fugerson, Lianne La Hayas, August Alsina, Michael Kiwanuka, Aloe Blacc, SZA, Sampha, Ro James, Alex Jacke, Laura Mvula, Daley, Alice Russell, Robin Thicke, Angie Stone, Isley Brothers, Emily King, Kelly Rowland, Allen Stone, Emeli Sande, Melanie Fiona, Cecile McLorin Svant, Smokey Robinson, Dinah Washington, Toni Braxton, Chihiro Yamanaka, Marvin Gay, Aaron Diehl, Anita Baker, Simply Red, Chris Botti, Deion Warwick, Carolina Chocolate Drops, Sting, North Mississippi Allstars, Bonnie Raitt, Wayne Brady, Chelsey Green, Elvis,Tina Turner, Aretha Franklin, Quincy Jones, Lou Rawles, Frank Sintara, Rick James, Tony Bennet, Sade, Peggy Lee, Brook Benton, Freddy Jackson, Jon B, Aerosmith, Seal, Art of Noise, Al Jarreau, Whitney Houston, Brian McKnight, Take 6, Michael McDonald, Ray Charles, Phil Collins, Santana, Kenny G, Etta James, Dave Burbeck, Creed, Mozart, George Benson, Nat King Cole, Maxwell, Eva Cassidy, Miguel, Janelle Monae, James Brown, Jimmy Hendrix, Rachelle Ferrell, Lenny Kravitz, Michael Jackson, Bob Marley, Rolling Stones And The Beetles Too Name A Few.

Food: Whole Foods Market , Trader Joe's, Takoma Co-Op, Costco Greek Food & American Breakfast
The six things I could never do without
1. God
2. A Short Cute Brown, Chocolate Skin or Asian Woman with Curves Is My Weakness (5'3 and under such a turn on).
3. A Good Game Of Chess Or Scrabble
4. Karma - It Only Gives Back What I Give Too It
5. Washingtonian Magazine - "An Excellent Magazine For Planning Fantastic Dates"
6. The aloe plant and argan oil without it I would not look so young.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1).Life! Its Endless Possibilities And All That I Can Do To Make Someone Else's Life Better.
2).Investing In The Markets.
3).Current Economic State of The United States And The World.
4). Visiting all the homes built by Frank Llyod Wright Im just so in love with his works simply breath taking and awe inspiring.
5). Stupid Ok Cupid females who want guys to come up with some super creative shit on here just to say hi. Like hi or how are you doing is not good enough for their ass.
6). Why on earth do black women put fake hair in their head and come out the house thinking that looks good! No way in hell you can mix your natural kinky or wooly hair together with store brought Asian, Indian or White girl hair and think it goes together! No No Boo Boo! Im shaking my damn head thinking wtf is this shit! Can somebody please do me a favor and find the black woman who came up with this dumb ass creative idea because that ho needs to be hung and shot for crimes against humanity! Got these beautiful black sistas up here looking like clowns, hobos and Raggedy Ann Dolls and the sad part is sistas up here swearing they looking good! Fool them devil. I think Lauren Hill said it best when she sang That Thing "How you going to win when you aint right within". But im not one to gossip so hear that from me!
7) Janelle Monae that woman is my secret love crush. Hmmmm smart, sexy and creative the true essence of a woman of color. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Home Relaxing After A Long Week of Work And Planning What Im Going To Do On Saturday Night For Fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
1). For some odd reason the ladies I have met from this site look nothing like their pictures, lets just say its been a big let down. However, Im keeping my fingers crossed someday the picture will line up with the actual person. :(
2)."The key to a successful relationship is learning to only date women who are your speed"
3). I been on a few dates and I must admit ladies Im not interested in having sex with you on the first date and the sad thing is most of the women will not date me again because I turned them down for sex. So sad but true. :(
You should message me if
1) Employed. (A real job with benefits unless you are in school, no unemployed females please. I do not need your money however Im not looking to support any broke females.)
2). Most of your pictures are not neck up pics. Sorry ladies if damn near all of your pics are neck up that means you are trying to hide something and its called "FAT AS HELL" Sorry I do not mean to sound shallow but me and large women do not mix, if I cannot lift you then Im not going to date you. Sorry! :(
3) Do not have kids. (No baby mama drama or daddy drama needed in my life)
4) Loves to read and willing to learn new things to develop yourself into a better person. (Ladies this does not include Zane books or ghetto romance novels ok!)
5) Intelligent.
6) Enjoys going out. ( I go out often and I am looking for someone to join me from time to time; if you are a stay at home type you are not for me).
7) Loves kids. (Notice ladies I said loves kids not have your own kids, big difference!)
8) If you do not live in the DC area please do not message me. Im not interested in a long distance pen pal relationships, chatting or being your personal Dr. Phil to help sort out all your problems. If you are in need of a counselor or psychologist to help you solve your issues please dial 1-800-DOCTORS Im sure they can refer you to the right specialist.