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permasmudge

48 / F / straight / Single

Montgomery, Alabama

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am playful, understanding, and affectionate.

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My Self-Summary

I'm a transplant to the south from Oregon. I've lived here in Montgomery since 2007. I'm finally getting used to the south. It has been an adventure so far.

Personally, I'm funny, smart and independent. I enjoy good food, wine and football (Roll Tide and go Steelers!). I like treasure shopping at flea markets, listening to audio books and knitting.

I respect the man I'm dating and treat him accordingly. I'm never verbally abusive and do not like to argue. I try to operate from a place of kindness at all times.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I work full-time at an arts organization as a designer and department head. I'm also in graduate school full-time studying Psychology.

I’m really good at

I'm really good at detail work, reading comprehension and pleasing a man.

The first things people usually notice about me

People usually notice my blue eyes and my red hair. I have a cherub face and people usually think I'm younger than I am...nice.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My favorite books are mysteries and science. My favorite movies are A Beautiful Mind, Shine and Wings of Desire. I like Thai food best. Music wise I listen to a variety of musical choices but enjoy country music on a regular basis.

The six things I could never do without

Six things I could never do without:
1. My 18-year old son, Franklin
2. My computer
3. Books
4. Clocks to keep me "time aware"
5. Fresh food
6. Coffee

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I spend a lot of time thinking about how I can been a better person. I am very accountable and try hard to be responsible for my own choices. I don't blame others for the mistakes I make. My goal is to be the best listener I can be.

On a typical Friday night I am

Friday nights I'm usually at home doing homework or reading. I don't normally go out on Fridays because I work Saturdays. If I go out I'm usually in the company of friends and tend to eat at ethnic restaurants.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm willing to admit that I'm comfortable with my sexuality and willing to be a considerate, passionate lover with the right man.

You should message me if

You should message me if you want to be treated very well. I treasure the people in my life and value friendship very much. You should be open to being cared about deeply and willing to open your arms and welcome me.

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