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perplexes_

30 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Desperately
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and wants more
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe technology is a force of democratization, very unlike how we experience Democracy at the moment, because suddenly knowledge is much, much cheaper.

That we can only be real and honest with each other when we explore the ambiguous and largely arbitrary social constraints we grow up in.

That mostly people are good and want good things and want to avoid suffering.

That music heals and hints at something larger than ones' self.

And to get good at anything you have to fail a lot.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spend a lot of my time at a company programming computers to make college cheaper.
Hanging out with my son and my partner.
Taking naps.
Listening to music and cataloging it.
Practicing DJing and playing at shows.
Programming a video game.
Reading science fiction.
Drinking wine.
Drinking coffee.
Playing Dungeons and Dragons.
Not wearing socks or shoes.
Running.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding the core of you. Cooking. Food. Music. Complements. Puns. Wine selection. Programming. Emotional connection.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall. Really. Fucking. Tall. I curse and make inappropriate comments. I wax philosophic about happiness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Usually this is where you go to find consumables that you may have in common with me. I understand that there are some things, some bands in particular (with me I guess) that if you've heard, and understood deeply, it would tell me a lot about you.

But honestly, anything that you gone deep into tells me a lot about you anyway. We don't really have to share anything - if we shared everything, then it would be pretty boring, no?

Look, I'm stalling. Fuck you, my taste in things is far superior. Just - wait, no, I'm sorry. I was prompted for a list, and now all I'm doing is NOT LISTING THINGS. What a fox paws.

Here are albums that I have listened to quite a few times, that have shaped me musically. I bet that if you listened to them, you would get a sense of my character.

311 - Transistor
NIN - And All That Could Have Been (Live)
NIN - Ghosts
NIN - Year Zero
NIN - The Slip
Prodigy - Music for the Jilted Generation
Andy C - Nightlife (1 & 2)
Pendulum - Hold Your Colour
Roni Size - Return to V
The Bad Plus - These Are The Vistas
The Matrix Soundtrack
Cowboy Bebop Soundtrack
Mechwarrior 2 Soundtrack
Portishead - Dummy
Massive Attack - Mezzanine
How to Destroy Angels - Self Titled / An Omen EP
Woven - 8-bit Monk
Battles - Mirrored
Childish Gambino - because the internet
Kid Cudi - Indicud
Photek - KU:PALM
Kanye West - Yeezus
The Glitch Mob - Drink the Sea
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think I'm stronger than that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever I've been doing more of. Tricky problems, music (which is usually a tricky problem), relationships, potatoes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing Friday Night Dinner with friends and new people. It's SATURDAY that's usually the most happeningist.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have watched, and enjoyed, not ironically, Days of Our Lives.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Anything you've seen or heard tonight struck a chord and dumped some dopamine into your brain. There's plenty more, I promise.

Basically this medium is piss-poor for matching people up and still I hold out for a day when technology does the thing it promised us in the beginning.

So really the only way to find out if we'd hate each other, or mildly dislike something something "small" about each other but gloss over it because we're attracted, or what-have-you, is to send some tentative messages.

I don't bite. Hard. At first.