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persons_idevise

31 M Winnipeg, Manitoba, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:13pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Orientation and direction towards unity is my definition of good. Orientation and direction towards separation is my definition of evil.

Well, lets get the good stuff over with: I'm polyamorous. This means that I believe in falling in love with a plurality of people simultaneously and being honest in all my relationships. It has been a wonderful experience and I'm hooked. I feel its a form of anarchy: the relationships are entered into based solely on the needs and happiness of the people involved as opposed to any form of hierarchy or structure.

This also extends to friendships. If I meet friends, then I will engage in that "relationship" to the extent that it is healthy for us to do so.

On a last note, I'm Christian. And as the detail section says, I'm very serious about this. But, you have to think to yourself, this guy's poly and hard-core Christian? What's the deal? If you find yourself thinking that, then maybe its time to reconsider what hard-core Christian means. If you want to know more what it means to me, I would be more than happy to explain.

Well, that's it. I hope you enjoyed and that I piqued your curiosity so that we can chat and maybe get to know each other a bit better. What do you got to lose?
What I’m doing with my life
I currently have a job where I deal with people who are feeling socially isolated. Its a great job and I'm really getting to know Winnipeg well because of it. That being said, if you think there's something that would be fun, new and exciting about the city, I'd love to hear more about it.

I also work as a career counsellor in a high school. The people there really like me and I really like them. This fall, it will become a full-time position and this is a source of great joy for me.

I also like to write short stories. This may be a phase, however because it only started last fall and there's only been 2 stories. They're pretty good but who knows if I'll continue with it. It is fun though.

I am taking a Masters program which might take me several years. I think its been over 10 years since I've wanted to do a program like this. Hopefully I'll graduate and become a family therapist. I hope to do this without making money.

Lastly, I like to keep active. I bike for my job and I can end up doing close to 2 hours of biking in a day. Its really great because I get to see so much more of the city than if I was on a bus or a car.
I’m really good at
Meditation and relaxation. I feel that too much of an emphasis is placed on production and not enough on doing nothing. Sometimes I literally just like to stop and smell the flowers. I really like dandelions. I'm also good at helping others in my life slow down and relax too.
The first things people usually notice about me
If its summer, they'll probably notice I'm on a bike. If its winter, I have my mitts on a string.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I go through phases of intense reading and I can do 3 books in a very short period but other than that I'm not an avid reader. What I really like is when somebody tells me about a book they've read, what they liked about it and the ideas they gleaned.

Movies: But I'm a cheerleader, The Iron Giant, V for Vendetta

Shows: I don't really like TV. I find things very repetitive and predictable. Also, when I find I'm getting drawn into a show, I feel duped. Its because shows are generally only good because people designed them to be addictive rather than well written.

Music: Electro Dubstep primarily, but anything else is good too. I'm a big fan of music that has a political or social commentary. Think macklemore's same love

Food: yes please. I like trying all sorts of new flavours.
The six things I could never do without
1. Breaking the rules. I enjoy finding ways to accomplish what a rule sets out to do while breaking the rule. For instance, in a workplace that wants a positive, professional atmosphere but discourages fraternizing, I'm going to fraternize even if it gets me fired because fraternizing is a better way to get a positive, professional atmosphere.

2. Social Change. I like to feel that I have an impact and a positive one on the people around me. What I like to see is social change which brings about more freedom and respect for all individuals.

3. Intimacy. One of the few books I've read and will recommend is book called "the five love languages". It teaches people how to communicate love. I express and feel love through touch.

4. Stimulating conversation. I need my mind to be engaged to form connections with people. Also, sharing ideas is a great way to learn and learn how to love others.

5. Time alone. What can I say? I'm an introvert. I still enjoy time with others and I don't get cranky when I need to be alone.

6. A comfortable bed. I love sleep so I might as well love the bed I spend so much time with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the absolute magnitudes of other stars compared to our sun and how that would affect the earth
On a typical Friday night I am
coming home late from work after killing myself at the gym
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes, I sing Christmas songs randomly
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Anybody can message me. However, preference will be given to the following:
Self identified anarchists
People with blue hair
People who don't feel the need to shave any body hair
People who don't feel the need to wear make-up
People who don't feel the need to conform to social norms
And people who don't judge the above.