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32 Winnipeg, Manitoba, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24-39
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Nov 25
Sapiosexual, Straight, Heteroflexible
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Not at all
Christianity and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Wow, I'm really impressed by the changes made to gender and orientation options! Also, if you "like" my profile, I can't know because I'm not a paid user.

Well, lets get the good stuff over with: I'm polyamorous. This means that I believe in falling in love with a plurality of people simultaneously and being honest in all my relationships. It has been a wonderful experience and I'm hooked. I feel its a form of anarchy: the relationships are entered into based solely on the needs and happiness of the people involved as opposed to any form of hierarchy or structure.

This also extends to friendships. If I meet friends, then I will engage in that "relationship" to the extent that it is healthy for us to do so.

On a last note, I'm Christian. And as the detail section says, I'm very serious about this. But, you have to think to yourself, this guy's poly and hard-core Christian? What's the deal? If you find yourself thinking that, then maybe its time to reconsider what hard-core Christian means. If you want to know more what it means to me, I would be more than happy to explain.

Well, that's it. I hope you enjoyed and that I piqued your curiosity so that we can chat and maybe get to know each other a bit better. What do you got to lose?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I currently have a job where I deal with people who are feeling socially isolated. Its a great job and I'm really getting to know Winnipeg well because of it. That being said, if you think there's something that would be fun, new and exciting about the city, I'd love to hear more about it.

I also work as a career counsellor in a high school. The people there really like me and I really like them. I get to influence the minds of the young. I try to encourage the youth and tell them that healthy relationships are possible no matter where they are. I also encourage them to think about the systems of power that are in play that oppress them.

I also like to write short stories. This may be a phase, however because it only started last fall and there's only been 2 stories. They're pretty good but who knows if I'll continue with it. It is fun though.

I am taking a Masters program which might take me several years. I think its been over 10 years since I've wanted to do a program like this. Hopefully I'll graduate and become a family therapist. I hope to do this without making money.

Lastly, I like to keep active. I bike for my job and I can end up doing close to 2 hours of biking in a day. Its really great because I get to see so much more of the city than if I was on a bus or a car.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Meditation and relaxation. I feel that too much of an emphasis is placed on production and not enough on doing nothing. Sometimes I literally just like to stop and smell the flowers. I really like dandelions. I'm also good at helping others in my life slow down and relax too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If its summer, they'll probably notice I'm on a bike. If its winter, I have my mitts on a string.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I go through phases of intense reading and I can do 3 books in a very short period but other than that I'm not an avid reader. What I really like is when somebody tells me about a book they've read, what they liked about it and the ideas they gleaned.

Movies: But I'm a cheerleader, The Iron Giant, V for Vendetta

Shows: I don't really like TV. I find things very repetitive and predictable. Also, when I find I'm getting drawn into a show, I feel duped. Its because shows are generally only good because people designed them to be addictive rather than well written.

Music: Electro Dubstep primarily, but anything else is good too. I'm a big fan of music that has a political or social commentary. Think macklemore's same love

Food: yes please. I like trying all sorts of new flavours.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Breaking the rules. I enjoy finding ways to accomplish what a rule sets out to do while breaking the rule. For instance, in a workplace that wants a positive, professional atmosphere but discourages fraternizing, I'm going to fraternize even if it gets me fired because fraternizing is a better way to get a positive, professional atmosphere.

2. Social Change. I like to feel that I have an impact and a positive one on the people around me. What I like to see is social change which brings about more freedom and respect for all individuals.

3. Intimacy. One of the few books I've read and will recommend is book called "the five love languages". It teaches people how to communicate love. I express and feel love through touch.

4. Stimulating conversation. I need my mind to be engaged to form connections with people. Also, sharing ideas is a great way to learn and learn how to love others.

5. Time alone. What can I say? I'm an introvert. I still enjoy time with others and I don't get cranky when I need to be alone.

6. A comfortable bed. I love sleep so I might as well love the bed I spend so much time with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people who say they are "living life to the fullest" probably aren't
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
thinking about work on the weekend, lol
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I may message something secretly because I want to get to know their dog/cat/parrot just as much as the person
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Anybody can message me. However, preference will be given to the following:
Self identified anarchists
People with blue hair
People who don't feel the need to shave any body hair
People who don't feel the need to wear make-up
People who don't feel the need to conform to social norms
And people who don't judge the above.