Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Wow, I'm really impressed by the changes made to gender and
orientation options! Also, if you "like" my profile, I can't know
because I'm not a paid user.
Well, lets get the good stuff over with: I'm polyamorous. This
means that I believe in falling in love with a plurality of people
simultaneously and being honest in all my relationships. It has
been a wonderful experience and I'm hooked. I feel its a form of
anarchy: the relationships are entered into based solely on the
needs and happiness of the people involved as opposed to any form
of hierarchy or structure.
This also extends to friendships. If I meet friends, then I will
engage in that "relationship" to the extent that it is healthy for
us to do so.
On a last note, I'm Christian. And as the detail section says, I'm
very serious about this. But, you have to think to yourself, this
guy's poly and hard-core Christian? What's the deal? If you find
yourself thinking that, then maybe its time to reconsider what
hard-core Christian means. If you want to know more what it means
to me, I would be more than happy to explain.
Well, that's it. I hope you enjoyed and that I piqued your
curiosity so that we can chat and maybe get to know each other a
bit better. What do you got to lose?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I currently have a job where I deal with people who are feeling
socially isolated. Its a great job and I'm really getting to know
Winnipeg well because of it. That being said, if you think there's
something that would be fun, new and exciting about the city, I'd
love to hear more about it.
I also work as a career counsellor in a high school. The people
there really like me and I really like them. I get to influence the
minds of the young. I try to encourage the youth and tell them that
healthy relationships are possible no matter where they are. I also
encourage them to think about the systems of power that are in play
that oppress them.
I also like to write short stories. This may be a phase, however
because it only started last fall and there's only been 2 stories.
They're pretty good but who knows if I'll continue with it. It is
I am taking a Masters program which might take me several years. I
think its been over 10 years since I've wanted to do a program like
this. Hopefully I'll graduate and become a family therapist. I hope
to do this without making money.
Lastly, I like to keep active. I bike for my job and I can end up
doing close to 2 hours of biking in a day. Its really great because
I get to see so much more of the city than if I was on a bus or a
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Meditation and relaxation. I feel that too much of an emphasis is
placed on production and not enough on doing nothing. Sometimes I
literally just like to stop and smell the flowers. I really like
dandelions. I'm also good at helping others in my life slow down
and relax too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If its summer, they'll probably notice I'm on a bike. If its
winter, I have my mitts on a string.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I go through phases of intense reading and I can do 3 books
in a very short period but other than that I'm not an avid reader.
What I really like is when somebody tells me about a book they've
read, what they liked about it and the ideas they gleaned.
Movies: But I'm a cheerleader, The Iron Giant, V for Vendetta
Shows: I don't really like TV. I find things very repetitive and
predictable. Also, when I find I'm getting drawn into a show, I
feel duped. Its because shows are generally only good because
people designed them to be addictive rather than well
Music: Electro Dubstep primarily, but anything else is good too.
I'm a big fan of music that has a political or social commentary.
Think macklemore's same love
Food: yes please. I like trying all sorts of new flavours.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Breaking the rules. I enjoy finding ways to accomplish what a
rule sets out to do while breaking the rule. For instance, in a
workplace that wants a positive, professional atmosphere but
discourages fraternizing, I'm going to fraternize even if it gets
me fired because fraternizing is a better way to get a positive,
2. Social Change. I like to feel that I have an impact and a
positive one on the people around me. What I like to see is social
change which brings about more freedom and respect for all
3. Intimacy. One of the few books I've read and will recommend is
book called "the five love languages". It teaches people how to
communicate love. I express and feel love through touch.
4. Stimulating conversation. I need my mind to be engaged to form
connections with people. Also, sharing ideas is a great way to
learn and learn how to love others.
5. Time alone. What can I say? I'm an introvert. I still enjoy time
with others and I don't get cranky when I need to be alone.
6. A comfortable bed. I love sleep so I might as well love the bed
I spend so much time with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people who say they are "living life to the fullest" probably
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
thinking about work on the weekend, lol
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I may message something secretly because I want to get to know
their dog/cat/parrot just as much as the person
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Anybody can message me. However, preference will be given to the
Self identified anarchists
People with blue hair
People who don't feel the need to shave any body hair
People who don't feel the need to wear make-up
People who don't feel the need to conform to social norms
And people who don't judge the above.
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