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34 M Olympia, WA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–46
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 11:45pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
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My self-summary
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So the funniest thing happened! I was doing a bit of clicking, and stumbled across the men of OKcupid in the area. And oh my lord, there are like 50 million of them ---and they all are screamingly horny, okay, I didn't actually look at that part of the questions, but let's just make a wild assumption here --- so screamingly horny fella's, and about 37 women. Lord, that sounds both incredibly difficult --or delicious-- for the ladies, and well just down right time consumingly terrible for the fella's. Then I thought in the mirror of my mind, hey, that's you Mr. Time-Wasting buddy, see I told you!

Now, I am a handsome, talented, funny, kind, thoughtful, intellectual, educated, talented, funny, kind, man. I am also a people person, and don't mind getting out in the world and meeting folks. But Olympia can be a bit small at times, and so I thought I would extend my pool of who I know (read: meet some more ladies!).

But my current finding, mixed with my lack of photogenics, leaves me in a bit of an OKBind. I am seeing now that this is how they hope they make their money, off the fella's, it's like a club, filled with fella's. I think there is a name for that, hmmm (read: pondering humor).

I am hoping that if you have read this far, you might be willing to cut through my photogenic blues, by clicking on these cute video's my little cousin made of me a couple of years ago. It captures some of my style, and a few of my dance moves to boot! ***smiley face***

Before returning to school, I practiced Massage Therapy and mentored with a Naturopath for many years. These days I mostly get acupuncture, do Yamuna Body Rolling, and use this knowledge to locate nice things.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a student. I study social sciences, specifically political economy and cultural studies.

I am trying to live a balanced and healthy life, eat more home-cooked meals with fun friends that see no separation between thinking, laughing, and wine.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
thinking across discipline, engaging, the creative enterprise
The first things people usually notice about me
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my sweet smile, my nice eyes, my positive attitude, my humorous ways, my intellect, my friendliness, my empathy (and that's it).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like books, I collect them. I would love to impress you with them.

some favorites are:

Stephanie Coontz -- The Way We Never Were: the 1950's and the Nogstalgia trap
Eric Wolf -- Europe and the People Without History
Ralph Ellison -- Invisible Man
George Lipsitz -- Footsteps in the Dark
Robin D. G. Kelley -- Africa Speaks, America Answers

I like music, I have a radio show. I would love to impress you with it.

some of my favorite jams are:

Cloud One --- Atmosphere Strut
D'angelo -- Voodoo
Chic -- Soup For One
D'angelo -- Voodoo
Jack DeJohnette --Music from the Heart of the Masters
Stevie Wonder
Gil-Scott Heron -- We Almost Lost Detroit
De La Soul -- The Stakes is High
Roberta Flack --Trade Winds

I love movies, but I can rarely be tamed long enough to commit to sitting down and watching one. I will with you though!

Food, gotta have it, got-ta got-ta have it. The better, the better. Let's eat!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
that is a silly question, really. Really, that is a question? Silly!
--- Okay not 6 things, but how about 6 words, twice, with an exclamation point at the end! ---
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
political, economic, cultural, ideological and spacial constructions, transformations and the potentiality of alternatives. The intersections of race, class, and gender. Combined and uneven development. The history of events and ideas. How best to organize. How to conduct a good interview. Ethnomusicology, I studied and have taught music for many years, and sometimes host a radio show on the relationship between music, culture, politics, place -- and my big ass mouth.

Okay, now some might wonder what in the living hell all that means, what it means is that I have ADD.
You should message me if
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You're great, easygoing, curious, sophisticated, nice, sweet, compromising, thoughtful, cute or just want to reach out and find out more about me. Thanks for taking the time.

I am just coming out of a relationship.