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pervect13

48 M Tacoma, WA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English, German (Poorly), Other (Okay)

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My self-summary
I will attempt to answer the questions as well as I can, I've never been great at these kinds of things and much prefer the direct queries from people or even talking one on one. If you would like to know more about me you than is written below you can always drop me a line, and I'll be happy to answer any questions you have.

I am Poly, Geeky, and RPG player
What I’m doing with my life
A lot has changed since I wrote the last essay here, so, I figured I should update it...This year has seen a lot of crap happening, with small spurts of Happy here and there. Definitely trying to increase the happy portions. I have a new day job, which is actually paying me, so that is a huge plus. Making my Steampunk goggles seems to have leveled off a bit, but right now I have one customer that is keeping it going, almost single-handedly (Gotta love Rock Stars on Tour). I am trying to change my outlook on life, which has Improved greatly from even just two years ago. I sincerely doubt I'll ever be a Tigger, but I'm clawing my way up from Eeyore slowly but surely. I've met some wonderful women this year, nothing permanent, but very intense and powerful while we were together. I'm looking for something more long term along those lines. I am poly, and as they say these days, Ethically Non-Monogamous, so, any potential partner needs to be poly as well. If this is an issue, you don't really need to read much further. Sigh...and...I also need to let you know that I am Herpes positive. Aside from trying to survive today's economy, I like to read, see movies (action adventure, sci-fi, fantasy, and especially Super Hero flicks). And take care of those whom I love to the best of my ability. I smoke a pipe, it's more an affectation of my Steampunk persona, and like Clinton, I don't inhale. I am Kinky (more specifics as to what that means is learned in person) but, it's not the main focus of my life. I am married, but separated from my wife, who used to have a profile on here. We are doing the best we can, which is all anyone can really say. This probably isn't the most up-beat of posts, but, it is where I am right now.
I’m really good at
listening....people tell me all sorts of things...some of which I would rather not know...Massages...DnD 3.5 (playing a Brick in any RPG)
The first things people usually notice about me
...that I look like someone they know..honest..somewhere in Tacoma I have a twin (or twins)...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Gross Point Blank, the majority of superhero type movies, 80's techno, electronica, old school rap, Trance, percussion and so much more. I'm pretty eclectic about music...not so much about film. I can't watch dramas...I just can't see spending that much money to watch life, especially someone elses life. I want to escape reality not relive it, but that's me...AS for reading, SciFi and Fantasy, when I have time. I'm a bit behind in that, Books are expensive, and I don't use the library. Not that I have anything against it, I just want to own the books that I read. I have a Kindle now, it's not the same, and the books aren't necessarily less expensive, but I can take more of them with me.
The six things I could never do without
companionship, love,touch, family, my phone, sex, oxygen. I know that's more than six, but really...who can live without oxygen?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Relationships, work, life and the path I walk in it.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't particularly have a typical Friday...whatever happens is what happens.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe in love at first sight. I don't play games. I'm not interested in playing hard to get, or people who play hard to get. If you're interested in me, let's move forward on that basis. Its just courtesy. Also, I'm not into a lot of ass-sniffing while we figure out what to do. If we're interested enough in each other to meet and there is a connection, there's no reason not to proceed. I'm not in High-School anymore, and don't feel the need to relive those days. I'm looking for a Primary. While I have no problem with secondary or the like, and will explore relationships with people from that perspective, it will not keep me from continuing to search for something more.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–55
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You know what a D4, D6, D8, D10 and D20 are and how to use them...you know what "Roll for initiative" means...you know what Steampunk is based on...or, just because you want to.